I am so blessed to be having a healthy girl so far. We found out for sure yesterday. I'm just so floored. I really have always thought I'd have boys. I'm excited but it just feels kind of strange. Don't get me wrong I know a little girl is so precious but I think I'm just in shock. I thought I would at least have a boy first. It's not that I wanted one over the other... just not what I expected.
Anyone else felt this way?
2007-03-21 07:45:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
JUST WANT TO RE-STATE THAT I DO WANT A GIRL... VERY HAPPY. JUST WASN'T WHAT MY INTUISION TOLD ME.
2007-03-21 07:54:29 · update #1
I thought for sure I was having a boy (don't know why). When I found out I was having a girl, I was sooooo happy. No disappointment, but kind of surprised. Now that she is here I can't imagine her being anyone else. There is nothing like a teeny tiny little baby girl :)
Good for you and congrats!
2007-03-21 07:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, my first was a boy. When I found out I was pregnant with my second I wanted it so desperatly to be a little boy because I enjoyed my first one so much. When I found out it was a girl I asked the technician if she was sure. She was!! I was sorta upset and depressed a little because I felt like I wasn't the girly girl type and I could never raise a girl. It took me a couple of days to adjust to the idea. But I did and boy is she beautiful. I love her every bit as much as my boy. When I got pregnant the third time and found out it was a boy, I was very excited. But then I got to shopping for clothes and found myself staring at the girl clothes! It is so funny! My children are all such a blessing and I love them so very much! Boys and girls alike!! Congratulations and God Bless!
2007-03-21 14:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really thought I would have boys and I am having a little girl. Sometimes I am scared, because I was a complete tomboy and if she is a little princess I don't know what I will do. Life is funny and everything works out for a reason, but wow she is not even here and I am already intimidated by her, lol.
I am not disappointed either, just kind of in awe.
2007-03-21 14:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly7887 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanted a girl when i was pregnant with my 1st child, i had a girl with my 2nd i really wanted another girl because my sister has 3 boys and i knew how boys are so hyper all the time when i found out i was having a boy i have to say i was a little upset but now he is 9 months old as hyper as anything he pulls my living room apart lol i love him more than life the moment i saw his little face i cried my eyes out so dont worry when you see you little girl you will forget all about your feelings about wanting/having a boy
2007-03-21 14:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After having my oldest (girl) I thought for sure that is all I would have so when my 2nd came around I was completely floored too when I found out that it was a HE. I was a nervous wreck...wasn't sure if I could handle a boy after knowing what to do with a GIRL.
But trust me, that all melts away when you see their sweet little faces.
2007-03-21 14:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way. My husband wanted a girl and I wanted a boy. Every now and then I still have dreams that she's a boy. I think as a woman we just want our little man. And hopefully one day we will have a boy.
It's normal, and you will love your little girl so much when she is born. Don't worry abou tthat. Girl or boy your first child will be a dream come true.
2007-03-21 14:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by crimsnclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep exact same thing here
we wanted a boy first so our little girl would have a big brother
i even had dreams the baby was male
but we had a beautiful baby girl who is the sweetest thing ever
i say that even though she's now 2
2007-03-21 14:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by squeaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I fell this way also... i just have a strong intuition that im going to have a boy first... actually that im not going to have girls at all!!... but just what i want the most is a healthy baby.. this is pregnancy number 2(i lost my first one)
2007-03-21 14:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, sex is controled almost entirely by the father (obviously on a biological level) as a sperm is either male or female.
2007-03-21 15:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl was what we wanted from the very first, so no help from me :-0
I just wanted to say congratulations! :-)
2007-03-21 14:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥ Mommy to Two ♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋