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I went to the doctor the other day and just found out that I'm 2 months pregnant and I dont know if I should them and how would they react

2007-03-21 07:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by terry t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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I remember how scared I was and what I relief it was to finally get it out and how good it worked out. See my parents were kinda strict. (Im not sure how old you are) But I was young and hadn't started college yet or not married. So I expected an earful. The first time I was on the phone with my mom and just kept naming pregnancy symptoms until she asked....I was like man Im so tired, throwing up, moody, sensitive to smells, I just feel like crap!!! Then my mom says well are you pregnant and I said I don't think so but I probably should get a test to be safe, then called her the next day. I ended up losing that baby and my mom was like ok well now you can get on birth control and go to school and yada yada. Well I wanted that baby now...I was so hurt that I felt the only way to cope was get pregnant again. So I did. And this time I really was scared bc this time it was not an accident. So I finally suck it up and call her and say hey grandma...and she understood what I meant and did not blow up like I thought and has been supportive since and helped me a lot. I strongly recommend doing it over the phone bc if there is yelling, you can always hang up. Or do it via internet or write a letter. I think in person would be way to hard.

2007-03-21 07:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

If you're old enough to be having sex, then you should be mature enough to be able to tell your parents. Your circumstances definitely play a part here...how old you, if you're still living at home or still depending financially on them, etc. If you're out and on your own and not financially dependent on them, then just tll them and how they react is just how they react...it really doesn't matter. But, if you're still a minor and living with home with them or are financially dependent on them, then you should be prepared for them to get upset, but just remember that that's a big shock for them to hear. But, I suspect that over the next 7 months, they'll lighten up and they'll be the happiest grandparents on the planet when the baby comes. Only you know your parents, though.

2007-03-21 14:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0 0

tell them the truth.

no matter what, you need to tell the truth. they may be very hurt, they may get angry, they may yell at you, but...no matter what, tell the truth.

also, you need to let the boy who helped in this circumstance know and his parents, too.

the most important thing you can do is to get the best health care and nutrition you can so the baby will grow normally.

and, if you are in no position to raise the child, PLEASE give it up for adoption to a loving family. there are thousands of families who love children and are willing to adopt children and care for them and love them in a family.

the link is to an organization that may be able to help you with the issues that are now before you.

God bless and good luck!

2007-03-21 14:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by stonechic 6 · 0 0

Well how old are you? The best choice would be to go to planned parent hood and ask someone from their to come to your house with you too, tell them that way if they over react you have someone their to calm them down.

2007-03-21 14:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Well just sit with them, and or invite them out for a dinner then let them know...it will be better if the father of your baby will be there with you for support. Good Luck

2007-03-21 14:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sit down with them & make them understand the situation you're in. Let them know the decision you have made. Ask for their support & love.

2007-03-21 14:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Joan McBitch 3 · 0 0

Straight up, that is the best way. It is easier to tell the truth then hide a lie.

2007-03-21 14:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

If you are grown then just tell them, but if you not just try to explain to them but you shouldn't keep it hidden.

2007-03-21 15:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kusheena J 1 · 0 0

write them in a letter

2007-03-21 20:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Emma 2 · 0 0

Just tell them. they might be upset at first but they will get over it.

2007-03-21 14:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by jenniferguelker 2 · 0 0

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