Me and boyfriend have been dating for about two months, and we are both virgins, and have only kissed, but we both want more. When should we start having sex?
2007-03-21 07:30:01 · 25 answers · asked by Jon A 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When you guys are both comfortable and ready!!
2007-03-21 07:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Think of what made you wait so long. If there's no particular reason, then you should just go ahead and do it. You could wait a little bit longer depending on your age and how the relationship is coming along. But I'm not going to lay all that god crap on you, because I know that humans are typically sexual beings and sex is NOT just for straight people, having babies and waiting until marriage. SEX is for expressing love between ALL consenting couples and feeling good.
2007-03-21 14:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm glad you ask this, because I use to wonder myself. The thing I thought when you dated was you waited till like the third or fourth date, just to see if they are interested in you or just looking for sex. But I soon came to realize that most guys won't date you unless you give it up. Well that got me frustrated, because I'm old fashion. Well my old fashion ways didn't help me finding true love so, I got to the point where I was just going to give it up. But I didn't and I waited and I found a guy that was willing to wait, and guess what? We ares till together and, yes, we have had sex, but he was looking for more than a roll in the hay. So to answer your question, I would wait a couple of dates, just to find out what he is actaully looking for. Good luck bud!
2007-03-21 14:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, you will know when it is time. If you are already questioning it, then maybe the time has already come.
You cannot put a time line on things like this and moreover, do not listen to the Contreras who would talk you out of it.
2007-03-21 14:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Katmando 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not God's will that you date same sex person. And sex is God's gift to married couple. : )
But remember that WE ALL fall short from the glory of God. And we get saved by mercy and grace alone.
I would ask you to wait longer and think it over.
2007-03-21 14:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say how old you are but I would give it a while longer. An intimate relationship needs people who are mature and emotionally ready.
2007-03-21 14:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by rememberme0247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait till you find the right man and go steady for a couple of yrs and then on your wedding nite give it to him....being your both virgins save it for each other...you waited this long you can wait a couple of more yrs........GOODLUCK TO YOU BOTH,,
2007-03-21 14:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only when you both feel comfortable doing so. There is no time table or rule, it depends on how you both feel.
2007-03-21 14:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by jjspike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why aren't you having sex already?
Just remeber to wear a condom. Anyone can say they're a virgin.
2007-03-21 14:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by Egg Bagel 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say wait.Today's society says 'do it'.But then there are alot of bad feedback in society.Work on the friendship,trust.
2007-03-21 14:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋