i am just 14.1 of my friend said me tat he lovs me.i didnt hav an ans.i said tat its not de time 2 love now.he asked tis 2 me through letters.he send it 2 me through a small girl.she 2 knw all.later she went and said her mother.then my parents knw abt it.nw he beleives tat i hav complained 2 my parents.as he is in 10,he hav 2 work hard.nw u say me whowm i shd lov...my parents or d 1 who lovd me.is it wrong tat i hav don?
2007-03-21 07:24:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anastasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1> You are just 14. It's not the time to get involved in something you are not ready for.
2> He is in grade 10, just around 15 vor 16 years of age. He is immature too. He is just playing out with his attraction towards you.
3> One does not decide to love. Love just happens. We cannot choose to love. We just feel it. You love your parents. At no instance can you land up in a choice whther to love your parents or not.
4> You haven't done anything wrong.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-22 08:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly question ... you can never stop loving your parents.
The question I think you have on your mind is "should I fall in love with this guy" . If you are asking that question - you are already in love. At this stage of life - love should mean not anything more than spending time together - watching movies, talking on phone. In these days of MMS scandals - dont even think about going beyond that.
And yes, life's a waste if you dont have a good career. So study hard, and let roamce fill up the breaks.
2007-03-21 08:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by con_cer_earned 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U didn't do anything wrong. Now it's not the time to fall in love. U must be atleast 22 or 23 to realise ur true love. Love that happens in teens won't last longer. Now u guys listen to ur parents & study well.
All the best ! :-)
2007-03-21 07:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think U have done anything wrong. Just relax. U haven't told any1 abt it. Ignore him N concentrate on your studies. Maybe it was just an attraction 4 U in his heart. Now don't think further on this topic n divert your attention to your studies.
2007-03-21 17:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.........i am 14 too!
but ur question sounds bit silly!!!(...not trying to hurt u!)
well........i think u shud go wid ur parents!.......
u shud concentrate on ur board right now!
tell the guy to wait till u become 18 or else find a new gurl!
and by the way.....how do u kno he loves u??
sirf kehne se hi nahi hota!!
who knows .......he maybe a flirt!
so ....be aware!........this mostly happens in teenage!
u can make frndz but...Boyfndz!!....not the right time!!
NEways.......tell ur parents everything.....make sure its not ur fault!
all the best!
its me
May
CHAO!!
2007-03-21 19:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-22 07:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start loving somebody when u gain enough knowledge to spell the word :)
2007-03-22 10:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by DesiGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question reveals your immaturity... Always take parents suggestion first... don't hide anything from them. Later you should not repent you know?
2007-03-21 08:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by vasudev s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at your age is precious ,
Do not fall in love as it will spoil your life
achu
2007-03-21 09:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can't understand what you are trying to say, and plus i dont think that he can love you at only 14 years old.
2007-03-21 07:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_golfer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋