i had a crush on guy that was friends with my best friend. i told her to hook me up on him but she always comes back and tells me that h has a girl friend or he doesnt want to have anything to do with me. turns out all this wasn't true. recently i started talking to the guy and he told me my best friend said the opposite. she told him i didnt like him at all. (he was also intrested in me) turns out that she liked him even though she has a boyfriend. i dont know what to tell her now but im upset and i feel betrayed. any suggestions or advise????????
2007-03-21 07:24:29 · 6 answers · asked by loveless* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, have a discusion with her. Tell her that you've been there and honest for her. That all the times you were with her is really important to you. Then, asked her why she did all this to you instead of doing things that it can affect your friendships. Some people really change for a long time after they get what they wanted from you. Give her a chance to explain. And if the situation between u 2 gets rough, then she really change. If you and the guy likes each other, then you really should go for it before ur bestfriend make some dirty move. In other words, be4 she tells him another lies.
2007-03-21 07:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... I'd tell her boyfriend.
But if you really are her friend I would understand her and try to forgive her. I didn't say forget it... I said forgive. But if this friendship is worth it try to make it work.
2007-03-21 15:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by jessica c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about what she did and that your upset and you feel betrayed by her.
2007-03-21 14:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb. No, but just ask her why all the unneccessary lies.
2007-03-21 14:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to ditch that friend. that one is not a good one
2007-03-21 14:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by xiomara724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get proof and confront her
2007-03-22 07:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋