I had sex with my boyfriend...I'm 15. We used a condom, but when he pulled out we were laying down for no more than 5 minutes. He checked and he didn't have the condom on, I checked and it was still inside me so i took it out. I washed myself, and took the morning after pill within the 72 hour time frame. My period was due 3/19. My period isn't set into a very accurate pattern yet so I don't know if I'm pregnant or not. I feel my cramps and bloating and am getting migraines like I do when I have my period, I just didn't get the blood yet.....
Do you think I'm pregnant? What should I do that doesn't involve telling my mom...at least for now...?
2007-03-21 07:23:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Maybe not, 15 yrs old, boy that is young to be a mother,,try this next time,,,keep your clothes ON, best birth control around,,
2007-03-27 08:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen ... you are always going to hear about stop having sex!! .. or the other people will look down at this too.. but on the real note what you need do to .. now that you are active, find an adult that u can trust and let them know what is going on, ask for support and they can help you to get on the pill or any other method of protection... if you are worried do a test and hope for teh best you are not pregnant.. be extremely careful next time.. and remember things are truly up to u..wether u want to keep having sex or not.. and think about the consequences... =) take care good luck
2007-03-21 08:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you took the pill, ur more than likely not going to get pregnant especially since u took it in the 72 hr time frame. if you want to be absolutely positive ur not pregnant buy a pregnancy test. so should start the pill or get the shot so you wont have to worry about these kinds of things-jus a suggestion tho, but it would be a big load lifted off your shoulders if you did.
2007-03-28 17:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by mzmilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took the morning after pill, then you should be fine. They are very good. But you can also take a pregnancy test. You'll get a result even if your period is not due yet.
2007-03-21 07:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by LAURA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you have taken care of it, you use protection, and have taken the morning after pill... give yourself a few weeks. Try not to stress, that can cause you to miss your period. And think about not having sex until you know that you are ready for a family, and married and you know the rest. If you are stressing about having to tell your mom, you know you are not mature enough to be having sex yet. Good Luck.
2007-03-29 04:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by HappyGoLucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like you may not be pregnant if you are having your normal period symptoms.
However the only way to tell for sure is to buy a testing kit. If it does come out positive this is when you NEED to involve your mom.
Why don't you talk to your doctor about better family planning? If you continue to use condoms tell your BF to keep a tight hold of it as he withdraws.
Good Luck. XXX.
2007-03-21 23:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far you have been sensible and done the right thing... check with doctors and take tests.
The only thing you could have done better is be on a depro injection as well as the condoms so like a back up.
If one dont work the other should.
Washing yourself only pushes sperm up further... It would not have helped in the slightest.
In this case telling you mum may help if mum aint a moral relgious nut and sensible enough to realise that if you too are dating this will happen eventually (not the scare). And that you have been very sensible
Just not the depro 3 month the pill injection
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2007-03-21 21:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the outer ring of the condom was outside your vagina where you could take hold of it, then you're probably OK. Often, the condom comes off inside you while you're still having sex and gets pushed together so that it empties inside of you.
The relationship between really knowing if you're pregnant by asking a bunch of strangers on the Internet: zero. Telling your mother and getting a proper pregnancy test: 100 per cent.
2007-03-21 09:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think you were very mature about the situation. i'm glad you were using a form of birth control and when that failed i'm glad you took the morning after pill. i don't think you should be having sex at that age but the decision is yours... i really doubt you're pregnant. i remember taking the morning after pill within the 72 hr time frame and it delayed my period...it was either that or the stress. anyway try to relax. go to the pharmacy and take a hpt.
2007-03-21 08:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh, honey this is a scary thing for you I'm sure....well it sounds to me like you may just be a few days late...but to be sure i would go get a home pregnancy test done asap....I also want to really encourage you to talk to your mom about having sex, you don't have to tell her that you are doing it but...you could start by explaining to her that you are getting older and would like to get on the pill just as a precaution (don't stop using the condoms though b/c this will not prevent std's) I know that as a mother I would appreciate the honesty and really know that my daughter was a responsible girl to think of this sort of thing....good luck sweat heart hope all go's well
2007-03-21 09:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, first thing first.. stop panicking about it as this may stop your period due to being stressed. You were very sensible to take the morning after pill but to put your mind at rest i advise to go get a pregnancy test. Hope all goes well.
2007-03-21 09:54:43 · answer #11 · answered by charlie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋