After you get into an argument with someone, you make amends and all but then they resort to being really mean to you and calling you names.
Is this common? Somebody told me it was passive agressive.
2007-03-21 07:22:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
A little too common. An ex boyfriend still calls me pig headed!
2007-03-21 08:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, that's not passive aggressive. Passive aggressive would be if I was nice to your face, but making hostile actions at the same time...to you, or others while you are or are not around.
Are they calling names to you or someone else?
Time to change friends.
1) She isn't a friend
2) Whoever is repeating hurtful things to you isn't your friend
(a) Why is this "friend" allowing this person to speak negatively about you to them and THEN repeating to you??
You deserve so much better. You sound like a nice person.
2007-03-21 14:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by paddlinglikecrazy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Passive-agressive is when someone chills you out and acts like you have no effect on them. You are talking about someone saying they accept your apology but they really don't. Right? Right! Is it common not to be forgiven? Absolutely!!
2007-03-21 14:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pretty common with immaturity. I don't get in too many arguments. if I do, it's either a doozy that totally ends whatever the relationship was or it's so petty, it's just a disagreement that no-one actually gets angry about. The only doozers I've had ended in divorce!
2007-03-21 14:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Passive Agressive could be a good way to describe it... I also refer to it as the I never grew up syndrome
2007-03-21 14:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by JustJen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope thats just someone acting like a real A**hole! LOL If you have an arguement, make up, and then they bad mouth you behind your back, then that person is not a friend. Chalk them up to a lapse in concentration on your part and move on. They're not worth stressin' over, forget them and find better people to hangout with.
2007-03-21 14:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by West_End_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called being 8
2007-03-21 14:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse N 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
eh, after i fight with someone we make up and don't talk about the subject any more. when it's done it's done. don't bring up garbage that's been buried.
tell this person it's bothering you to be treated like that. if they aren't willing to let it go then move on.
it may be the person didn't get to fulling express what was bother him/her, so ask the person what's wrong and why they're acting that way. if they only want to bottle it up and don't want to heal it's not worth worrying about. it's their own self punishment you can't fix.
2007-03-21 14:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anyone that does that... passive agressive yeah I think you could call it that. Inmature...I think would be a better term....loose the friend...they're no so nice...
2007-03-21 14:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband likes picking fights when I'm tired..and when I finally react and tell him to shut up, he calls me names. I don't know what that is, but it's pretty hurtful.
2007-03-21 14:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋