I am pregnant with number two. I have opted for a midwife. I am always so worried what she thinks of me! I get annoyed with myself. I am so used to doctors that don't communicate more then 15 minutes a month with you. I am worried I am bugging her too much or asking stupid questions. Or that she thinks I'm a bad mom or shouldn't be a mom (I am single now and he is long gone)... This is such new territory for me. What's wrong with me! She is doing her job, and not making me feel bad about anything. She is great. Why do I feel this way? Is it normal to feel this way in a new situation?
2007-03-21 07:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yes, you are very normal. I have 2 friends that said the same thing. They are different than Dr's who are great but just down to business. A midwife is very different. but they usually love what they do am Im sure you are not bugging her. just talk to her like a good friend. she probably is anyway
2007-03-21 07:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by jon jon's girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You wouldn't worry about what others thought of you if you realised how seldom they did" --someone, I can't find it so I probably have some of the words wrong.
You aren't bugging her and she expects to spend an hour each appointment with you. But if you are really uncomfortable maybe you should try a different midwife.
2007-03-21 07:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U extremely ought to recover from your insecurities pronto. i understand that's difficult because of the fact I extremely have been there, yet I extremely have had issues of my weight, hated my seems at one factor, and grow to be made exciting of and ridiculed as a baby. think of of seems as a genetic "present", very resembling innovative or athletic skills. there is often gonna be somebody obtainable who's extra perfect at it, or can compete with u on it. it sort of looks like u basically prefer to be numero uno... Which u definately ought to be on your guy. yet as long as u understand on your coronary heart he aint going no the place, and nevertheless thinks your a hottie, u ought to experience shelter. C'mon woman, adult men are under pressure to think of like this. Even chicks can admit whilst they see some thing that they think of is captivating. Your eyes will consistently locate some thing aesthetically captivating whether that's a flower, slightly furnishings, an animal, or yet another person. that's the way your gonna ought to software your concepts, ok?
2016-10-02 12:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by ulberg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never feel uncomfortable around your doctor or midwife.
2007-03-21 07:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋