I noticed that after I got married, all the men starting flirting with me, and openly suggesting things. Did this happen to anyone else? It's like the wedding band is a magnet for the opposite sex.
2007-03-21 07:02:05 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it has anything to do with the ring.
You must be a hottie and the men around you notice.
2007-03-21 08:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I don't wear mine anymore. My wife completely understands. A wedding band not only shows that you are taken. It sets up limits. People like to test limits. Flirting with married people is a safe way to test limits.
Another thing. Married people are most likely having sex on a regular basis. That's half the battle. You just have to get the married person to have sex with YOU.
2007-03-21 07:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a certain percentage of people view married people as not sexually satisfied, desperate, and starved for attention.
When I got engaged I noticed that men started looking at me a little differently, I'm not married yet, but I've already had people who didn't normally pay attention to my sexual side try to provoke me to discuss it with them and comment on my appearance.
I've just told them all to look at my fiance, haha he's not wealthy or especially able to take care of me, but we're absolutely in love and there's nothing that can come between us. I'm not marrying him for money ! We have great sex!
2007-03-21 07:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reason he taken.I have talked about that with both sexes ppl will hit on you once you've wedding ceremony band on or engagement ring.they're sorting out you to work out in case you'll fail incredibly to succumb too there flattery and etc. Been married for 9 years and Jessica Simpson type stylish's are consistently hitting on my husband .extraordinarily the hostess at eating places and food market cashiers. African American women flirt with him in sneaky concepts ,besides the indisputable fact that the Jessica Simpson kinds only are formidable with it. An me i'm getting all admirers yet i'm getting extra Latin me flirting. Its humorous I take it as praise yet do not act on it .no longer gonna cut back to rubble my relationship with my husband or my relationship with Christ only reason someone says some magnificent words to make me sense solid for 30 seconds. won't be able to compromise my chrisitan morals and marriage vows for excellent words. The devil tries too come at human beings in such an outstanding form of concepts and think ofyou've got to be watchful of what's happening or you'll discover your self being in a A-ROD /Madonna -or - Brad Pitt / Jolie previous situation.Ya sense me.
2016-12-02 08:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by turnbough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know you are married and are just looking for the one that is unhappy they can take advantage of with no strings attached.
What are you women looking for when you go out without your husbands?
2007-03-21 07:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by frank b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im getting married soon and I have heard that from some of my friends. I guess its true to some degree
2007-03-21 07:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah.no one would talk to me before i got married but after i got married all kind of men started to talk to me.
2007-03-21 07:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, but then the men flirted with me before i got married too! lol
2007-03-21 07:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have never noticed this, and I'm married for the third time.
2007-03-21 07:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i myself like married women because if u flirt with them and they flirt back then u know that ur up for some fun, cuz she doesn't really want a serious relation ship, she's already in one, righ?
2007-03-21 07:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by manuel g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋