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2007-03-21 06:42:01 · 22 answers · asked by randomX1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
kiss her. and smile.
2007-03-21 06:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess i really dont nag with my husband we joke around together. I just ask him if he can do something for me and he does. I do the same for him. If he needs something he asks me and i do it for him. Try talking with your wife and see if she can just ask instead of being demanding or being annoying like this incredible itch you cant get rid off.Tell her to try asking you like a human being instead of an animal. Also if she does just help or pitch in what you can. Sometimes like a teenager or a little kid one person or the other refuses to do something or throws a little fit leaving the other to act like a "parent." Seems that your wife is being the "parent" here. If you cant get to something at the moment let her know that you will get it done. If she doesnt even understand that and is being demanding anyway then SHE has a real problem and not you. Hope this helps :)
2007-03-21 14:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my secret that worked somewhat. My ex was a ******. His own mother told me that if Jesus Christ appeared on earth he would be in his face in a heartbeat lodging a complaint!
One day I'd had enough and thought just as you do. I decided to imitate him and give him a taste of what all his noise was doing to me. I did it for a whole week with a straight face. I gave him the same response he would have given me on any subject or question or on anything on the table at the moment. After one week he walked around in circles holding his head, could not think straight, became confused and told me straight out that he thought he was losing his mind.
I let him ramble on about this for a short time and then I told him what I had done in the hopes he would recognize what he was doing to me. He did not believe me! He went directly into some deep denial mode. Sadly, it never changed a thing in the long run...probably I did not keep it up LONG enough but it was so exhausting for me to behave that way.
On hindsight I should have continued. We split after too many years of that noise...best thing he ever did was leave. So try that on for size and see how they like them apples. Hope it works for you.
Peace to you....Good luck.
2007-03-21 15:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what is being nagged about. If you made a promise to do something in a specific set time frame and didn't, then you should listen to what the nagging is and why they are upset.
It may sound as nagging to you, but to them it may be a plea for "Listen to me, help me". Try to spend more time with them and communicate.
2007-03-21 13:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by belen2499 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the slack. Do stuff for her without her having to ask. Take the kids out for ice cream and let her take a bath, Do the dishes after dinner while she relaxes etc..
I know its a big help when I make dinner and dh cleans up afterwards. And on Sat he takes the kids I go and get my feet and nails done and walk around the malls. Little things really help out.
Sit her down and ask her what day does she want alone. She can go grocery shopping or do anything she wants alone. And that you will start helping..
2007-03-21 13:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to pacify a nagging woman is to stop being a jackhole!
2007-03-21 13:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, I cannot STAND women who nag! My mother nags my father and used to nag my brother and I when we were younger, and it is probably one of the most annoying things to have to deal with. Let me say this - once a ******, always a ******. I'm not sure there's any way to pacify someone like this, unfortunately, unless you say "okay" and do whatever they're nagging you to do.
2007-03-21 13:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You absolutely cannot appease a woman. The higher you jump, the louder she'll shout, and frankly, the less she'll respect you.
That said, if you are useless and don't contribute at all, she'll (rightfully) resent you.
Don't let her decide what you do or don't do. She can ask, you decide what you will do, tell her, and THEN FOLLOW THROUGH.
You cannot make her happy trying to do everything she asks, but she'll be much happier - and so will you - if you set boundaries, are strong, and reliable.
2007-03-21 15:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at them and calmley say, Sorry, but I no longer do guilt tripps, then turn, and slowly wark away. you will have to continue quietly moving away, even though voices will get louder, with name callings, intended to provoke troubble, but if you truely want to get away from all the nagging or what not, you gotta have the brass to say your peice and then get out of there.
Yah it's gonna come back at ya when you return, but after many walk aways, some thing outa change.
2007-03-21 13:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what she has to say...she probably hates nagging herself. TALK and figure a compromise to what it is she's nagging you about. You and the kiddies too :)
2007-03-21 13:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever it is that she is nagging about!
Take out the trash, fix the back porch, throw your clothes IN the hamper, not on the floor, etc.
2007-03-21 13:44:25 · answer #11 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋