Oh, yes...in fact, I've given up on guy friends...my husband was right every single time...they were only my "friend" in hopes of something more...be very careful.
2007-03-21 06:47:14
·
answer #1
·
answered by mrs O 6
·
1⤊
0⤋
Because your husband knows what all guys know: Your so-called platonic friend wants in your pants. You can say he doesn't all you want, but the bottom line is if you show up at your "platonic" friend's home in lingerie, your relationship won't be platonic for long. He won't say "But I just think of you as a friend!" he'll say "Hell yeah, I've been waiting for this."
Sorry to break it to you, but that's how guys are. Your husband knows this, as does your friend. You don't believe me? Test him. Get him on the phone and start making innuendo that you're looking for sex from people other than your husband and see how he reacts. Prepare to be sorely disappointed in your friend if you do this though.
2007-03-21 06:49:09
·
answer #2
·
answered by Takfam 6
·
2⤊
0⤋
I have had plenty of female friends, and to be honest I've never really had a problem with the 'love factor' creeping in - one or two exceptions, but I've always been interested from when I first met them and only acted on it when it was appropriate.
Not everyone finds everyone else attractive - just as two people may have an insane personal chemistry it is just as possible for two people to have none whatsoever.
2007-03-22 02:43:50
·
answer #3
·
answered by JQ Lg0qat 1
·
1⤊
0⤋
i think that the problem is that it is always seen a threat by your partner.
my boyfriend would never say anything bad about my close friends of opposite sex but they are people he would never trust with me; which i think is fair enough.
some people do think that there is always something more whether you believe it or not... i think its up to the friends on how they handle the friendship. me for example i make sure there is a clear distance btween us even though we are such good friends, sometimes i wonder wther im not in denial about the friendship because it makes me nervous. but then i realise that the only reason i distance myself and am nervous about it is because i am so determined not to lose my boyfriend because i know that he means more to me.
it is a tough situation though.
to me it comes down to how much your partner means to you and whether you are willing to put your relationship in a possible awkward situation.
2007-03-21 10:36:14
·
answer #4
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
0⤋
It is impossible for a man to have a platonic relationship with a woman. Other men know this, and know that your "friend" is simply waiting for an opportunity to make his move... even if he has to wait 20 or 30 years, he is thinking about it.
2007-03-21 06:47:41
·
answer #5
·
answered by Anonymous
·
2⤊
0⤋
it must be which you're jealous of the attention that she's giving her bf instead of you and you prefer the previous habitual back the place you have been nearer. whether, in case you do % which you need her, be one hundred% helpful which you do like her till now you tell her, or you will purely be breaking apart a happy relationship. i'm not asserting you're a homewrecker, some distance from it, purely asserting be careful approximately what that is which you permit out.
2016-10-19 06:31:49
·
answer #6
·
answered by farraj 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
that is only natural, he prob thinks of your friend as competition, men are not equip the same as women and cant see 2 people of the opposite sex just being friends, this means he could never be "just friends" with a woman.
2007-03-24 09:21:31
·
answer #7
·
answered by LISA uk 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
I have platonic male friends who get on very well with my husband, they don't always have sex on the brain ... perhaps your husband is a bit jealous of your friendship? But why should he be? I mean, who did you actually marry?
2007-03-21 08:42:49
·
answer #8
·
answered by Orla C 7
·
1⤊
1⤋
As much as I would like to agree with you. Men and Women friendships dont work. you just need a couple of drinks and a bad day, to change things
2007-03-21 08:29:31
·
answer #9
·
answered by Babe K 2
·
1⤊
0⤋
Most of my friends are men (I'm female) and most of my husband's friends are female - he even went on one of them's hen night a few years ago!
It doesn't bother either of us - we both know that there is a huge difference between loving a friend and loving a partner.
Sounds like your guy needs to grow up a bit and stop with the jealousy.
2007-03-21 07:01:11
·
answer #10
·
answered by Leapling 4
·
1⤊
2⤋