he cheated me and claim he love the other woman more than me? im afraid my baby grow up with out a father,im afraid being a single mother, pls. advice.
2007-03-21 06:13:20 · 6 answers · asked by icy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I left my daughter's father when she was 1, we are much better off with out him (she is now 6). Just make sure you sue him for child support - that will go along way in helping you support your child. If he loves someone else it is just a matter of time before he leaves anyways, you should make it happen on your terms. Hopefully you have a supportive family that will be willing and able to help you and your baby with the transition.
2007-03-21 06:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by head_kase13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not control whether or not your baby grows up without a father. It is his choice to be involved in your daughters life if he wants to be.
You can do anything you set your mind to. It is better to be on your own with your daughter than it is to be with this man that obviously doesnt love you or care about your feelings (I am sorry to say it that way, but based on what you said, that is the truth).
I have been a single mom for my son's full 8 years of life. I am not going to lie and say that it has been the easiest thing in the world, but it is a lot easier than it was when I was feeling like crap becuz one of my exs was cheating on me. You deserve better, and so does your daughter.
Leave him, the two of you will be just fine!
2007-03-21 06:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot to consider but by all means do not stay with a man that does not love you. No obstacle is big enough to put up with that kind of stuff.....I am a single mom, my ex left when my son was 6 months old. I made it, you have to rely on your family and friends and do without a lot of things but in the end it was worth it. I am so glad I did not let his butt come back, and he did try....plus you can try to get child support. Honestly, it will seem very hard, but you will make it through
2007-03-21 06:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Always PO'd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi love nicely what a capture 22 difficulty besides the shown fact that once you married you made it undeniable which you won't stay in oz.. it sort of feels he was hoping that as quickly as the toddlers arrived you will possibly exchange your concepts, that's consistently unwise to circulate right into a marriage with an thought that your companion will exchange it in no way works. you have tried chatting with him, you have been to Australia an hated it, so it truthfully comes right down to tthree issues Does he choose you to circulate understanding your going to experience remoted, homesick and depresssed which will badly impression the toddlers. 2. He accepts that forcing you to do some thing you do no longer prefer to do by utilising utilising emotional blackmail, this would possibly not make a marriage more desirable it is going to wreck it. ask your self what's their in oz..that he would not have here? why is he so wanting to circulate such as you're saying he has no person their so what's the genuine concern. in case your relationship is slightly rocky it ought to be that he hopes by utilising taking you in another country it is going to shop the relationship ( It won't) i understand that I extremely have offering you with extra questions besides the shown fact that they are substantial issues you ought to evaluate. Write him a letter and tell him the way you experience that forcing you to do some thing you do no longer prefer to do is making you depressed and this might impression the toddlers. that's extra sturdy to forget approximately approximately some thing whilst that's in black and white. if this would not artwork you ought to ask your self how long do you prefer to proceed in a relationship with a guy or woman that's being self concentrated , and would not take your feeling into attention. once you adore somebody you won't have the prefer to cause them to do some thing they did no longer prefer to do understanding it would cause them to experience undesirable.
2016-10-02 12:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more afraid of catching a STD from him that could be life threatening. With a father like that, he isn't setting any role models for your daughter.
2007-03-21 06:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this will be a tough road but it can be done...I did it...however, had no money for phone or call...but we survived all the same
2007-03-21 06:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋