my friend (name whusz we will leave anonymous) is going thru a crisis she needs my shoulder 2 lean on but i have no support and i do not kno wat 2 tell her...her problem is she wants to break up wit her boyfriend but doesn't kno how/ 2...without making a complete fool of her self....dey have only been goin out fo bout 2 weeksz ...does anyone kno how shud i tell her
2 break up wit him...if it is in a note what shud she write or if it is in face 2 face wat shud she say or even thru MYSPACE...thanksz alot
2007-03-21 06:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
definately not through myspace - that will hurt - How would she feel if she got dumped that way?
Tell her to just be open with him and tell him straight out - face to face. It'll be harder, but it's the right thing to do... That way they can also talk out any issues and maybe stay friends?
2007-03-21 06:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell him that it just is not working out and she wants to cut off the dating right now. To his face. Notes can get BAD.
2007-03-21 13:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard been there but I did it and just do it face to face or by phone no myspace or letters. Just tell her to say Sorry but this is not working out. If he starts aksing why why just say you have ur reasons.
2007-03-21 13:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by ms.olveraangelica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face to face. through myspace is a complete jerk move. just tell her to tell him she wants to break up with him. after 2 weeks they're not that invested anyways
2007-03-21 13:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to be completely honest with him.I know that is can be extremely hard to do it but in the end she will get what she wants.
2007-03-21 13:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to distance herself slowly away. Her boyfriend should get the drift and after only 2 weeks of going out...I'm sure he'll be fine. Your friend should decline invitationsalso.
2007-03-21 13:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks is kinda short y she upset just tell her to break up with him she'll get over him
2007-03-21 13:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Janice M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first someone should tell you how to spell, and what kind of chud friend do you have that cant be honest enough to tell someone that they dont want to be in this relationship anymore.
2007-03-21 13:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him face to face. she should tell him that it just isn't working out but would stilll like to be friends if that's ok.
2007-03-21 13:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY OUT OF IT. IF SHE MAKES THE WRONG DECISION AND YOU HELPED HER OUT SHE IS GOING TO BLAME IT ON YOU. LET HER DO IT ALL BY HER SELF. SHE GOT HERSELF IN THAT SITUATION LET HER GET HERSELF OUT OF IT.THAT'S WHAT A GOOD FRIEND WOULD DO.....
2007-03-21 13:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋