I met this guy from the caribbean, we fell in love. He wanted us to get married, in the next month.. However 4 months ago he accidently forward a love e-mail from this girl saying that he is so much inlove with her and asking her to married him. I wrote the girl and identify myself to her and ask her and she said I should ask him. Anyway He tell me it is nothing just a friendly e-mail. This girl confirm to me last week that she is pregnant with his child and that they are inlove 7years now. He is denying it.. I have to pay my own plane ticket and for the wedding in his country and then filed for his visa. Am I been taken for a fool. He is a divorcee, has two children from two separate woman.
2007-03-21 05:34:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to step away from this cause he is involved with this woman obviously if she is pregnant with him. And he is gaining a visa by marrying you. I think you need to just walk away from this situation. After the email, and the confirmation of she is pregnant and they have been together for 7yrs, that is enough that he is playing games and may just be trying to gain his visa.
I think if you are still thinking of saying i do, get too know him better, find out more about this man, and court him awhile longer and see how that works, dont jump into something that you obviously have doubts about. Go with your gut feeling, and your gut feeling is saying something is very wrong here
2007-03-21 05:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop all contact with this person. Do not pay any(more) money towards this relationship. He is trying to take advantage of you which is why he is rushing things along. Consider yourself fortunate that you found out sooner rather than later, and that you did not end up married to this person.
2007-03-21 05:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man sounds like a mess. Unless you love the headaches and lies he tells you then leave. He is using you for all its worth. You already have proof of his infidelity, what more do you need? Leave the guy alone and move on with your life. Do it for your own self respect. Good luck.
2007-03-21 05:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by CeeCee19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldn't be that hard. And marriage even harder. If you have to ask then you have doubts. Forget him, move on to someone who doesn't have this kind of drama.
2007-03-21 05:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by lesmodee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you so desperate that you can't see the truth when it is right in front of you? Forget about him and move on with your life.
2007-03-21 05:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are a fool
2007-03-21 06:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋