what would u do if you was living with your boyfriends family and are seven months pregnant, but got a job offer and they tell you that in order for you to live with them you cant have a job?
2007-03-21 05:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by kimberly m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its becouse they need a babysitter to watch there kids while the mother only workd 4 hours a day and so they dont have to go run errands with them... i really cant afford no other place to live right now, the job is at a dry cleaners.. my boyfriend works there and my cousin does too...
2007-03-21 05:41:45 · update #1
If you have to stay there charge for the babysitting...I would move out...
2007-03-21 06:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What are your goals? If you want the job then it's is simple: get your own place. I am unclear why they wouldn't want you to have the job unless they are concerned about the child's health. If that is the case, there may be wisdom in what they are saying.
I would consider getting through the pregnancy, have the child, and see how you feel about the job later.
As a business owner, I do not understand why an employer would want to take a woman on that is 7 months pregnant. I would gladly offer the job to the person AFTER the child is born, but any training, etc before the birth is really not very smart because of the increased stress levels on the child and mother.
Many companies will selfishly bring on a person to help the company get through a tough period without consideration of the health of the person or the child. I am not accusing the employer of this, but take it into consideration. Unless you've got your Master's Degree and this is high-paying specialized job where you have been interviewed for months for the position, then I would wait until after the pregnancy.
Best of luck!
2007-03-21 05:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Justyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd move out. Immediately. Take the job, tell the boyfriend and his family to go to hell, raise my baby without him, and make sure that his happy a** paid child support for the next 18 years/
2007-03-21 05:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them control you, you can get help from the state if you cannot afford your own place and are pregnant, but get the job, you are entitled to a life of your own as well you know!!!
2007-03-21 05:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give them the Finger and get my own apartment!
Really, that can't be true, they wanna force you to stay there and be there for the child, which is also possible with a job...don't let them do it or your life is gonna be miserable for a long while!
Remember, it's always YOUR decision what you wanna do with your life!!!
2007-03-21 05:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by twisted_352 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your immediate concern is your child and what's best for that child which is to support it by having your own place, providing all of the essentials needed and some space.
2007-03-21 05:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find a place of my own and say the hell with them. I wouldn't let them control me like that. You need to be independent. Why not move out with your boyfriend and split expenses?
2007-03-21 05:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by NLH823 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id try and find out why they think like that. There is no LOGICAL reason for you NOT to work unless they are filthy rich. In which case, you surely have NOTHING to worry about. Good luck
2007-03-21 05:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run like hell, dont look back.
2007-03-21 05:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋