2007-03-21 05:08:44 · 7 answers · asked by sarah mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he is an alcoholic
he can get help
butt he can't be cured
read up on it aether you love him for himself or what you want him to be
2007-03-21 05:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Aldoit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcoholism is poisonous to relationships. Sooner or later there will be a breakup, so the most loving thing you can do is to gently but firmly take a stand. Tell him if he does not take decisive steps to address his problem you are leaving him. If he chooses the liquor over you then he would have left you eventually anyway and you are better off without him
2007-03-21 12:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Gently sit him down and talk to him not at him there is a difference . Tell him how his drinking makes you feel and suggest to him that he needs to stop or the relationship will not work .
Not making jokes but whatever you do talk to him when he is sober because if he is clear headed he will be able to listen to what you have to say . If the relationship means anything to him he won't jeopardize it .
Take care
C
2007-03-21 12:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you love him but....
It sounds negative but it should be. There's no way to turn alcoholism into a positive.
Rest assured, you are not the first person to tell him that either.
2007-03-21 12:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smash him over the head with an empty bottle...that should wake him up...
start putting out on a regular basis too.
2007-03-21 12:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chris P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about his drinking..
2007-03-21 12:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it's unhealthy, and you care about his health and so should he
2007-03-21 12:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by mishmosh2001us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋