Is there a difference, in between sex and making love?
2007-03-21 05:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell yeah. Sex is all bout the hit it and quit it. Love making comes for an emotional connection youhave with your woman.
2007-03-21 05:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
When you "have sex" with someone you are distancing yourself from the very emotional connection that can develope from the physical act. If you don't love the person then you are "having sex".
"Making love" involves a strong emotional connection as well as the physical act.
Sometimes it can be distinguished by the way it is done. Some say "making love" involves kissing, stroking, foreplay, etc. while "sex" doesn't. Some say sex is more violent. I don't agree with this distinction because sometimes, even when you make love, you can do it in a (controlled) violent manner because that's how you feel like doing it at the moment. That doesn't take away from the emotional connection if you still love the other person.
I, personally have never "had sex" and I probably never will. I don't understand the point if you can't look the person in the eye and honestly tell them that you love them afterward.
2007-03-21 12:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Been here before 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indeed! You can experience great sex just for fun, and I believe that it is quite healthy.
But when "you make love", if you really do, it means you love your partner, obviously. You may not be a good performer and that will embarrass you or make you feel bad, even if you love her (him).
But if you are both efficient, there may be occasions when sex is just great sex. But from time to time you feel that sex is not enough, no matter how good it was. You feel there should be a more intensive way to communicate with your partner, both physically and emotionally. You want more (not doing it again); instead you miss something more intensive to express your corporal and sentimental feelings and realize that there is nothing beyond.
You feel that neither words nor erotic communication is enough. You want more than that but can't find it. That is "making love".
It may not happen every time you are intimately engaged, but if it is recurrent, if it happens again from time to time, then you are really in love and sex acquires a different meaning. If you never felt that way, you have just been having sex, no matter how much you believe you love your partner.
You can't force you to feel that way: It just happens...
2007-03-21 23:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Doug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just like there a differences between Lust and Love
Sex: is when the animal inside need so time out
Love making: is when you and your mate are wanting to show love to each other in a physical way.
2007-03-21 12:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitiely! Making love is passionate and romantic, where as having sex is just for the orgasm and the spur of the moment type of thing. Making love makes you feel like you are floating on a cloud and that he loves no one else but you...he hits the right positions and you could do it for hours. Sex is like i wanna f@#$ u so hard till you scream my name to the top of your lungs, and i will make you come twice at the same time, type of thing. It's just for pleasure and then you get up and go about your business like it was just booty...nothing more.
2007-03-21 12:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, sex is simply an amusement for most people, making love is more out of love for one another.
2007-03-21 20:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by claudineiskander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, then there's no difference. Single people have sex, etc., the only thing they don't do is make love, why? Because it's only for the married people.
2007-03-21 12:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think making love is the making out that leads to sex so you could kinda say there the same but there still diferent
2007-03-21 17:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NetraLuv01 lol.. I love your answer...
Sex is what you do in the supply closet on a busy afternoon at work
When you make love to someone.. it's an experience.. you try your best to please that person because you know they are doing their best to please you.
Best of luck
2007-03-21 12:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of difference.
2007-03-21 14:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋