2007-03-21 04:47:51 · 14 answers · asked by Tatyana W 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why does your daughter want to have sex? Eleven is a very young age to become sexually active, and I'm sure sure doens't fully understand the subject or the consequences of her actions. I would explore this issue with her and inform her of any misinformation about sex she undoubtly has.
Also, if you think she is going to have sex, I would take her to the doctor to get an exam and discuss birth control options.
2007-03-21 04:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by sapphirafire 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first you should done teach yo self how to speak better, then you should lock up your daughter because there is nooo way that an 11 year old should want to have sex yet, she should be jumping rope not jumping bones. have a talk with your daughter and tell her that she shouldn't think about that for at least the next 6 or 7 years, she should enjoy being 11 and not throw her childhood away she will have plenty of time as an adult to do that.
2007-03-21 04:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Weapon X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do is lock her up inside the house and not let her go anywhere. The next thing I would do is take her to a place so she can see how a single mom lives, that was young when that person had children. Let her know that with sex comes pregnacy, and if she has sex, she will get pregnant, and having a child at a young age will screw up the rest of her life. Not saying having children is a bad thing, and I am sure there are women out there who had children who are successful, but its very tough to do, especially when you are trying to find a husband, and you have a child who is less than 15 years younger than you.
2007-03-21 04:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what any responsible, mature mother would do for her preteen daughter. You should talk to her about the risks, both physical and emotional, of having sex and explain that she is not ready to undertake such an intimate action with another person.
Find out why she wants to have sex. Is there a boy she likes? Is she feeling pressure to do so? Does she even know? That will help you understand where she's coming from and how to respond to her saying she wants to have sex.
2007-03-21 09:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, u sound like an 11 year old not an 11 year olds mum!!!
u really shouldnt be worrying about her not having her period!
and at 11 you should definately not be encouraging your child to have sex!!
and if u r the 11 year old mum, u r sick.
she'll probably end up a teenage mum, with no boyfriend and sponging of the government and tax payers to get a flat and living expenses paid!!
ppl really should get a proper education!!!
your daughter will not understand fully the consequences of her actions, and neither do you probably!
2007-03-21 05:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be bmacs witness to the crime...
Even if you are only joking... You are deplorable for even saying this in jest.
Do you have any idea how many young children get hurt and expolited each day in this country? They have parents who love them and care for them and the presence of something stupid and senseless like this is just painful. ESPECIALLY if it is only a joke!
You... are an idiot. Either way...
If you were not aware... let me be the first to tell you!
2007-03-21 05:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think its high time for sex education here on why she doesnt want to have sex at 11. Her body isnt ready for that, emotionally she isnt mature enough. STD's arent alwyas curable adn does she want that stigmna for the rest of her life. Some such as HIV/AIDS are fatal. What does she intend to do if she gets pregnant. If she ahs no answers for those(and trust me she doesnt) she doesnt need to be having sex.
2007-03-21 05:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by chellyk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no matter where you are in the world it is illegal to have sex at that age with or without consent of the parents. Also should she do so she would be putting some poor guy in jail for something she wanted to do and you also would be charged for child endangerment or abuse. She would also probably be taken from your home.
2007-03-21 05:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the importance of saving sex for someone she really loves and not to abuse what God gave her. Sex is for people who truly love eachother in mind, spirit, and body. I would recommend the book And The Bride Wore White by Dannah Gresh it is a great book for teens who are struggling with their intimate longing relationships. Good luck :)
2007-03-21 04:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she needs some moral guidance here. You need to tell her that this is very wrong. How can she even be thinking about sex at her age? What influences has she been exposed to?
2007-03-21 04:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋