i am havein a problem with getting a erection. I am only 29 years old and i have a few problems with my lower back, but nothing that has required any surgerys. I love my wife alot, but i do know that she did gain some weight. she was 135 lbs when we met. Now she is 200 and I can see past that. When we have sex sometimes my mind just wonders off and i cant consentrate anymore. I have had a few times of a lost erection right in the middle. I really dont understand why. I feel like i am one of those longly guys that dont want laid cuz of this prob. Please help
2007-03-21 04:27:27 · 7 answers · asked by pp_44883 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you were able to look past it and it wasn't a problem you wouldn't of brought it up. Not being mean just honest. A lot of men aren't bothered by a heavier women but if you are then just be honest with yourself. That issue can cause a lot more problems.
2007-03-21 05:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 04:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you erection is based on the fact that you've lost a visual attraction to your wife. Have you said anything to her about it? Can you get an erection on your own? (Masturbation) Does it stay hard then? If so then it's probably isn't physical on your part. I would check with your doctor for a referral for to a urologist.
2007-03-21 04:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what Viagra, Cialis and Levitra are for. However you look like you're in a psychological situation, which is not big of a deal. Don't worry, you'll be fine soon.
2007-03-24 18:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds physological, a tough call if she's the only one..
Do you think that she would loose some weight for you?
2007-03-21 05:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal...and it will change. Your wife gaining 65lbs does have an effect...you're just man enough to look past it.
Some men do that...relax, it will pass.
2007-03-21 04:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're latently gay. Explore your other side and do a favor for both you and your wife.
2007-03-21 05:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋