I already have a 1 yr old and my boyfriend broke up with me after i told i was pregnant and his mom said that he wont have anything to do with the child if i do keep it and then he told me that if i dont want him to hate me then i would get the abortion. I really dont know what to do since i have a 1yr old and the state is helping me with her. But i want to keep my unborn child
2007-03-21 04:24:09 · 15 answers · asked by shawty_red_atl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No! It's your body... do what you know is right... Babies are gifts from God and you got pregnant for a reason... He will come around if he is a good man... he is prob. scared and stressed right now. Pray, seek God and talk to your ex about why he is so adimate about not wanting another baby...
2007-03-21 04:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it the State's responsibility to care for your child when you can't keep your legs closed. This is another example of why we need to do away with Welfare. I'm sure this question wouldn't even come up if all the expenses were on you. Didn't you learn your lesson the first time around. Now, you want to bring another unwanted child into the world. Why are you having unprotected sex in the first place. What type of life can you provide for this child? If you have this child, the "new " state laws will require you to produce the boyfriend's social security info and make him responsible for his share of the expenses. It's his fault too, and you both will pay for the rest of your lives until the child is 18. Good luck.
2007-03-21 12:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by riverrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! It's a good thing you found out now what a jerk he is!!
It takes 2 to tango, and if he didn't want the responsibility of a child, then he should have taken all the right precautions.
And as far as his mother is concerned, it doesn't sound like she is a good mother if she thinks that you should get an abortion.
I have had an abortion, and now I have 2 beautiful children, and I could NEVER go through that experience again.
2007-03-21 11:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong and don't even let yourself think that if his mother and himself are so childish then you don't need them anyways.. I have a 7 yr old that the same thing happened with.. whether he likes it or not state will make him help you with the child(money wise) so you don't have to have that worry just move on if HE'S lucky he'll change his mind and b a part of a beautiful life if not then you just don't worry about it take care of your child just like you did your first one and everything will be fine.. you are your own woman and can do anything you set your mind to... take care and good luck!!!!
2007-03-21 11:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by demonisce101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHAMEFUL. You have a 1 year old daughter with a guy that the state is paying for, you're pregnant with another baby that his mother is demanding you murder, and here you are asking what you should do? Here's an idea......start by keeping your legs closed, dump this IDIOT and his family and write them off completely, move back in with your parents if you can so that your kids will have at least two positive role models in their lives, and GROW UP! Quit making babies with men you're not married to!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 11:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you listening to that loser!! You have an important decision to make that will affect you for the rest of your life. You may not even be speaking to him next week!! Make that decision on your own. Consider things such as , what type of life can i provide. What is best for both of us. If you listen to this boyfriend, how many babies will he have you abort before he marries you or dumps you?
2007-03-21 11:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by exel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you let yourself get pregnant by such a jerk. The sad thing is the only person that will be hurt in this situation is your unborn child. Good luck.
2007-03-21 11:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let anyone including these nasty people, talk you out of keeping your unborn child. If you wish to continue you do that and dont listen to them! Its your baby and your body, youl manage and im sure youd be a fantastic mum.
All the best xxx
2007-03-21 11:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by milasmummy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In his case the key word in boyfriend is BOY, you need a man and some day you will find one, but for now don't let that little punk azz b---- tell you what to do. You show him that you don't need him and that YOU ARE GOING TO BE SUCESSFUL AND A PROUD MOTHER OF 2 BEAUTIFUL BABIES. Good luck.
2007-03-21 11:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mc Fly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your unborn child and ditch this guy....he's not worth having around by the sounds of it.
2007-03-21 11:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋