i am tired of life and i'm only 23, i wish i was never born. i feel like i'm a space filler and have no purpose whatsoever, nothing ever goes right for me EVER!!!! this isn't a i'm-going -to-top-myself rant, i get rejected by women on a daily basis, i'm rubbish at almost every job, a lot people hate me for reasons i sure don't know because i'm a good guy, i'm stuck at home alone with nothing to do. my parents separated ages ago so i feel like a "waste product", my mother prefers to talk about other peoples kids to her friends and i don't get a mention, because i'm a failure through and through and my father doesn't call me. i just don't know what to do with myself anymore.
2007-03-21 04:22:00 · 6 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
there is a book out by Rick Warren called a Purpose Driven Life. You are not a failure through and through. God doesn't make garbage. He has a plan for you and he loves you. Our outlook in life is a choice. Sure there are reasons to feel depressed but we can focus on the positive things. Every day you wake up is another day to do it better than the day before. The past is just that " Past". Look outward to help others and meet their needs and God will meet your needs. Invite God into your life and tell him how you feel. He designed all of us to need him and desires us to cry out to him. Contentment can never be obtained without God in your life. Even rich people are miserable and depressed. God will give you strength and show you the way if you let him. This is the truth and it is freeing to give God your problems and watch him work them out for your good. Hope this helps and you are open to it.
2007-03-21 04:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis James 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a failure because you view yourself as a failure and so admit it right here on this page.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. What you need is a challenge in life, something that is hard for you to do, yet, you can do it.
Stop worrying about trying to please others or what your mom says or does not say about you. You will find that when you push yourself, try a sport, power lifting, set a goal.....people will then look at you differently, not because your good at something, but becasue they admire you focus and determination, as they would also0 like to "be like you"; this is all too common place
Your first step is to stop whining and get moving, little steps firts, then big ones.
I always wanted to try Luge and be an Olympian; I was a great athelet once, and at age 44 I benched 315 pounds and was a college class sprinter; I could have done more I think, I wish I was your age now, At 23 years old with nothing but potential in front of you; Join the Royal Marines and stop dicking around you have your whole life right there in front of you; go to it .
If you really want to stay home and whine this world has more for you than that. PUSH YOURSELF OUT THE DOOR. Your going toi be no-more scared or intimidated than anyone else who did the same thing all through out history.
2007-03-21 13:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Adonai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life there are so many ups and downs, unfortunately some have more downs than ups. These are life lessons and think about each lesson and learn from it.
Next, I personally believe we are all here for a purpose and to touch an others life in a meaningful way and once we do that then our time is up and we continue to a hopefully better place. I of course do not always understand why this applies to new borns and who's life they helps by being here. But, I have to believe there is a reason and good in everything and everyone. Some just placed the good deeper than others. I have to believe this otherwise I would be exactly where you are.
Please find someone to talk to and maybe just maybe there is some physical/emotional thing going on that your unaware of.
2007-03-21 11:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were put on this earth to do gods will.finding out gods will will make your life more fulfilling.
2007-03-21 11:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life has its ups and downs, and we all deal with things that we dont want to, but life is life.
2007-03-22 17:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy♦Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get mad about and take boxing.... just get some kind of activity... that will do wonders for self esteem
2007-03-21 11:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by dr.macgruder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋