2007-03-21 04:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by kala 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I have some strange questions for you. Some may not apply:
Have you ever mastrabated? If no, then it isn't surprising that you won't have an orgasm as they don't come easily, you need to know how to use the muscles in your boby. Try running you privates under the bathtub facet.
Also, you probably won't have an orgasm if your husband enters you right away. It takes lots of foreplay. Making him live up to his responsabilities.
Finally, does it feel like you need to pee at anytime while you are masturbating or having sex? If so, read the following:
It is a normal feeling for many women (the pee feeling). The lucky women known when and orgasm is coming, but the unlucky women confuse it with the 'pee feeling' and out of fear of wetting themselves they stop, thus keeping themselves from having an orgasm.
Not too long ago women didn't have any places to go and get advice.
Remember, the 'pee feeling' is actually the 'orgasm-feeling'. You may release a bit of fluid, but this isn't pee. More likely than not you will just have a really good orgasm. But you first need to let go, allow the feeling to envelope you.
If you are afraid to do this while having sex, you can try it by yourself in the bath-tub or shower, just so that you will know what will happen and what it feels like. When you are in the shower, their is no need to worry about accidentally peeing.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 23:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by quizzical 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know what it is that pleases you, and quizzica i am a lucky woman coz i usually get the pee feeling and it took me a while to just let go and OMG it was fab.
2007-03-24 15:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by LJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using toys with him. The Rampant Rabbit should do the job!
2007-03-22 00:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by Choccywoccy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean through intercourse then you are not alone. most women prefer clitoral stimulation before penetration. explore your vulva and clitoris and find out what gets you off. a small vibrator is a good investment and can be stimulting for both during foreplay.
relax and have fun.
2007-03-24 05:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by pamela g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aint met the right man yet! keep trying, dont give up!
2007-03-22 10:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u havent found the right one
2007-03-21 23:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by zara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know your own body, and lots more forplay from your partner!
2007-03-22 03:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably inorgamic - or you're not "excited" enough.
2007-03-22 12:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by [Jeni ♥'s A&F]™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him what you want
2007-03-21 23:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋