and had an on-going relationship for 6+months but that relationship ended and they were working on the marriage. She didnt feel he was working on the marriage and nothing was changing.
What can I do to help her? What advice can I give her?
They have 2 boys ages 8 and 4.
Is it possible to get over the anger and hurt when someone cheats?
2007-03-21 03:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let ur friend make her own decision.. she lives her life not you... if she thinks her husband needs to leave allow her to make that decision... if u want to help her... just be her friend and listen to her.... let her get over it on her terms... if she so chooses to forgive him thats all her decision.... ONLY interfer if she is doing something to hurt herself such as drinking or destructive behavior.. but as of now.... just be there for her...
2007-03-21 04:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only your friend can make the decision on what she needs to do with her life. The best thing you can do for her is be there when she needs to talk. Just make sure you don't get caught up in the drama yourself. As far as getting over the cheating, it is possible to get past the hurt and anger. It just takes time because it's a horrible betrayal to go through and since it wasn't a drunken one time thing, it will probably take longer. Best of luck.
2007-03-21 04:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to mind your own business right now. It sounds like you know a bit too much about a coworker. Personally, I don't get involved in personal matters with my co-workers. It just makes for an awkward work environment. And besides who wants drama when they're at work. We get enough of it when we're home with our own families.
Yes, it is possible to get over the anger when someone cheats. It takes a long time to come to terms with it.
2007-03-21 04:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So shall we check out the data as all of us comprehend them: a million. your husband cheated, repented and you forgave him. 2. your husband cheated returned. 3. he pronounced he wasn't. 4. you discovered an earring in his automobile (ought to she describe it??) 5. you have already lost the courting you as quickly as had it is not important who's telling what truths, 0.5 truths or lies. you have sufficient to pass directly to realize he's a cheater and a liar and he won't inform you the actuality. you're able to desire to % right here, stay with a guy who will proceed to cheat and would finally leave or you leave faster and get your happiness, freedom and sanity back. it is not you, that is him!
2016-10-01 06:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After I discovered my husbands affair, I also learned I have the greatest of friends. They didnt judge me or my decisions and they are always there and let me know it. So just let her know you'll be there for her when she needs it. Thats what still gets me through each day.
2007-03-21 04:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Klingonhomeworld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we can get over it and sometimes we cannot. Cheating is a bad thing and can be hard to swallow.
2007-03-21 04:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support her decision...
2007-03-21 04:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋