You REALLY think killing yourself will solve ANYTHING? You'll cause more pain and suffering for your parents than anyone deserves to feel. They're probably just angry because they see what great potential you have and feel you're not taking advantage of that. APPLY YOURSELF next time and they'll be very happy with you. If you want to fix things now, take some time to think about what steps you'll take to make sure you perform better on your next exam. Share those steps with your parents so they know you're taking your schoolwork seriously. They'll see you're making an effort and will probably be very glad that you're acting so responsibly.
2007-03-21 04:06:05
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answered by Roland'sMommy 6
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The first thing that you have to learn is not to be dependent on any other persons approval for your sense of self worth. The second thing is to ask yourself if there is anything that you love. The term, "follow your bliss" is used a lot and it is true. You are evidently still very young. You are not the only one that has felt the way you do now. I've been there and found may way in due time. Life is not easy. If it were there would be no point to it. Think about it. If we lived an easy, uncomplicated life in this world and then died as we all do, what would be the purpose of it. We are here to struggle with life's issues and grow into some one better and stronger in values than we were when we first entered this world. Is there a counselor in your school that you could talk to? You are certainly not the root of all problems in your family. If your parents are making you feel that way you need to clear the air and let them know how they're making you feel. They are probably doing the best they know how to try to motivate you. This kind of struggle within families is quite common. Try your very best to communicate with them. It's not easy for parents to let go of their children and let them find their own way. Do not totally discredit your parents council however.
I wish you well in you endeavors and hope that something that I've shared rings true to you and helps you along your journey. It may be helpfull to share this answer along with your initial statement to get the comunication ball rolling with your parents. Remember this family dinamic because you quite possibly may be a parent yourself some day. Parenting is not easy iether. Every member taking responsibility for comunication is very important in any family dinamic. You have not revealed your cultural back grownd. That makes a big differnce in the equation also.
2007-03-21 05:27:24
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answered by Del C 3
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First know that your failures do not make you who you are. Look inside to find your true happiness. Live your life the best you can for yourself and no one else. Your parents' problems are not yours. Yes parents get disappointed in their children. It is natural. My mother will probably never be happy with me. I'm 31 years old and she still finds fault in things I do or don't do.
I lost my brother 5 years ago to suicide. It was the most devastating thing our family had ever been through. I hope you seek help in how you feel so that you don't ever even think of going that route. I miss my brother every single day. We were very close and I wish I could have saved him. When I dream about him he knows he shouldn't have done it. I don't think he was capable of seeing how much he was loved. I hope you know that people love you even when life is hard and full of disappointment.
I have plenty of times when I don't feel like living. I understand that feeling. You need to talk to someone. Life will always have it's ups and downs. It's time you start looking at the things that make you happy. Even if it is a small and trivial as a good tv show or a sunny day.
2007-03-21 04:13:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Even I had this kind of thoughts sometimes...but I realized that dying isn't such a good option.
Instead, I would like to live just to prove myself that...life could be better than it is...
You said that you are talented, so you should do more often the things you are good at. And about the exams...you should think that there are just a very short part of your life,and if you don't prepare enough...you'll regret that later...like you do now. I know it is hard...but you don't have to study all the time for the exams. Instead, why don't you try to start your day by doing sth you enjoy, without thinking at the exams? You'll see that after a couple of hours you'll feel...I don't know how to say...a little guilty that you're not preparing for your exam...and you'll see that you will start learning without your parent's advice,and without trouble in your family!
Try it! It worked for me.The only important thing is to understand what you are learning and to imagine those things...and you'll see that you will easily learn everything you'll have to!
Well..I hope that I could help you...at least a little...I know you'll pass over those problems! You just have to believe in you!
PS: I hope I haven't done too many grammar mistakes...English is not my mother tongue and I'm just 16 years old...
2007-03-21 05:32:13
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answered by Daniela 2
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Make plans and save money. Focus on your future and all the different training or college you can find. If not college, then think about a job you would enjoy. If your school has a counselor ask for aptitude tests to find out what you would be good at and what you would enjoy doing. Keep your mind on the day you will be free and your family will no longer be your problem. The Future Belongs to You and you have as much right to be here as anyone in the whole world. One single word from me to you: Survive. @8-)
2007-03-21 04:13:18
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answered by Dovey 7
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Whining never helped anyone. You are worried about little stuff, happens. What might be good for you is to get a little more exposure to the Real world. Read the newspaper, watch the news and see how lucky you are in the very possition your in. Your parents may be hard at times but thats ok, that is thier job; there are kids who have sickness and no food and are shot at each day....and your not one of them; they struggle to live and you talk about suicide because of squabbling? This is about perspective and is not about deminishing your problems as you see them.
Your disapointed in You, your work levels and performance levels and most of all I think you worry about how others see you; stop it. Your Fine, your problems are typical for kids your age, so, put it all in perspective.
As soon as you find something interesting you like to do, the othger stuff will fade away as it will then be unimportant that you please the world.
2007-03-21 06:31:10
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answered by Adonai 5
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well let me tell u something God made all and put u here for a reason . i dont care if u dont believe in christlike things b cuz he made every thing.and maybe write down ur feelings in a journal or get a therapist.and since u do have talent there shoud b no reason u should want to kill ur self. and let ur parents no that i may not have done my best but wat u said put me down and made me want to die. and mayb when u go to college move out b cuz u dont need to hear things that make u feel like ur going to die.
2007-03-21 04:05:51
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answered by jayelle jewel 2
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Try not to be so hard on yourself!
Whatever you do, whether at school or at home, think about how your parents would feel. This will help you take into consideration their feelings and help you decide if you are to do it or not!
2007-03-21 04:07:04
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answered by hotti_hottichiny 2
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take it easy and try to relax. don't think too much.
no one is perfect!, everybody has flaws too, you know.
never let your personal problems affect your studies.
-- carefully and wisely deal with it and the most important thing, pray for it, there's nothing to lose. gudluck
2007-03-21 04:09:07
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answered by dian 2
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go 2 hell ppl have problems than that
2007-03-21 05:48:04
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answered by jason45 1
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