A guy friend was telling me that no matter what, every guy will cheat on a girl even if they are married. Is this true? He said that it might not be obvious but every man does it. Guys if you are really in love would you still cheat?
2007-03-21 03:55:44 · 29 answers · asked by Cuddles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No; it's different for every guy, depending on their personality.
2007-03-21 03:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to look at the guy who told you this, maybe he cheats, but we all don't. I'm not married, but I am in a serious relationship. I have NEVER cheated. I have had urges and many opportunities. But if you truly love someone, then I don't think anyone will ever go through with cheated. But from my experience urges are a normal thing. Don't listen to your friend.
2007-03-21 11:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Drew R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it might not seem like it but not all guys cheat. I have been with cheaters and I have finally found someone that is totally infatuated with me. He would never do anything to betray my trust. He truly loves me and doesn't mind expressing it. If a guy isn't 100% devoted to a relationship then odds are he will probably cheat. Good luck in finding that wonderful guy, it will probably be a long road.
2007-03-21 11:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will answer you from your last sentence, which is also a question. "Guys if you are really in love would you cheat ?".
A guy who really loves you will never cheat on you, he will always think of you adore you and honour your feelings, so where will he have the time to cheat on you when you are all he sees. A guy will only cheat if he is not satisfied with you and does not love you. So find love and be comfortable.
2007-03-21 11:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by peter n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe all guys cheat or are very capable of doing it. i had a wonderful relationship with this guy but i did not trust that he did things he had no business, and i did things too. but we did truly love each other. (and we still continue to talk after 2 years after our breakup, but we still don't talk about the bad things we did) we were both good at hiding what we did and didn't argue about cheating when we were dating we accepted it. that sounds like swingers! lol. okay, well i do think they all cheat. i think it would be extremly hard to live your life with the same person(like 50+ years of marriage) without some form of cheating going on.
2007-03-21 11:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty solid research has shown that women are more apt to cheat than men.
I am married now, and would never cheat on her. I am really honest with my wife, i love her very much. If Anna Kournikova came up to me tho to be honest i'd bring her home to my wife and beg for a 3some LOL. Anyways, it's all about trust and honesty. When you have that in a relationship and it's real it works out SO DAMN GOOD. Good luck, good people are hard to find.
2007-03-21 11:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me awhile to realize that all men don't cheat.
We have all heard of the ones that do though.
They are certainly not appealing, in the eyes of many.
No one really wants them in a relationship, but there are those that feel they can change them, and end up with the cheater anyway.
I am grateful having met a man, who is totally against it, and against men who do cheat.
I was surprise to learn that he had males friends that didn't cheat either. All you have to do is listen to them.
There are men with morals, and those are the real men in our society, those who show self-control about their own sexuality.
Would you honestly trust a man who fools around on his wife, with anything else as well?
You'd wonder what other kinds of temptations he would weakened to as well.
2007-03-21 11:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely positively not true. A lot of guys are really decent people who truly love their women. My parents will have been marries 19 years in October and my dad has never cheated on my mom and I'm 99.99% sure he never will.
2007-03-21 10:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way I can beat my wife at Monopoly is to cheat.
Oh wait - that kind of cheating.
No, I don't. Not every man does.
I have read that approximately 60% of men and 50% of women have cheated in their marriage. Women, however, are likely to refuse to identify "cheating" behavior as such.
They often will dismiss kissing, grabbing, or even full sex as not cheating if:
He cheated first
She was drunk
He made her mad
He never pays attention to her
etc
Men justify their cheating in stupid ways too, but they don't actually DENY to themselves that they did it.
Love is not always absent with cheaters. Cheaters can do what they do and still love their spouse. But they do it because they are weak, and they care more about themselves and immediate gratification.
I have too much respect for myself and my Disco Lady to cheat.
2007-03-21 10:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not all men cheat. Though I have never cheated on a girlfriend (I've only had one girlfriend), I've been cheated on.
It depends on the type of guy you go out with. Guys who have had many girlfriends tend to cheat. Guys who have had no (or one) girlfriends tend to be completely dedicated to a woman.
2007-03-21 11:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by snipertkc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, all guys do not cheat, @ less not this guy.
I was married for 12 yrs. before gettin divorce and thro I was (wrongfully)accused(almost daily while in college, 4yrs.) of it plenty. I'd had finally had enough and filed for divorce. Now, I've been divorce(single, again) for going on 18yrs. I hated bein accused of something I was absolutely NOT guilty of doing. No matter what I said, in protest.
2007-03-21 11:14:19 · answer #11 · answered by Don B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋