people say that women think scars are sexy, (and to some degree, this is true)
but what do men say? are scars sexy, or just imperfections on thier women?
okay, i am not talking about huge disfiguring scars, like, small scars. ones that you dont really notice unless you look.
ie: i have a scar on my knee, that is about 1/2 inch, from rollerblading. just little scars. or does it make your women less attractive?
2007-03-21 03:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No, those are fine. I thought you were talking about like the scars you'd get from mangling your arm in an industrial paper shredder.
2007-03-21 03:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, no, most guys don't have a problem with scars on a woman. As a matter of fact, it is the little imperfections that make a woman endearing to a man. No guy truly wants a "Perfect Woman". Perfect women are full of themselves, very high maintenance, and are a lot of times, impossible to please.
I think the real issue here is not the little scar on your knee, though, but the mindset that you feel is required to be beautiful. It would seem that you are worried about things that do not matter in the grand scheme of things. You know what? I used to bodybuild, and compete on a pro circuit. After my motorcycle accident, I was not able to do that any more. While in my coma, they didn't give me my fluids right, and my body atrophied and consumed the muscle to stay alive. When I saw myself after waking up, I was horrified! I felt like I was not going to ever appear sexy to any woman again. I wound up gaining weight, but not as much muscle, and thought I was UGLY.
But, I know now that sexy is a state of mind. Women don't always look at men as being perfect for a man to be sexy to them. And, every woman's opinion about what is sexy is different. It works the same way for men. Try not to be too self-conscious, because when the right man comes along, he will find you beautiful, and sexy, and will not be able to tear his eyes off you. He will get sheepish around you, and not be afraid to make a fool of himself before you. In short, he will adore you and find you amazing... If he doesn't... you don't really want him anyway...
Hope this helps...
2007-03-21 11:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Simple Man Of God 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no man cares about a 1/2 inch freekin scar on your freekin knee....unless you have a big slash scar on your face, I think most men won't care what kind of scars you have
2007-03-21 11:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋