i have been trying for 3 years now n im scare to go to da doctor. i have been but she told me there is nothing wrong. but i cant seem to get pregnant and i would like to know is there any other reason this is happening to me. can you please send me something letting me know. please.
2007-03-21 03:46:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You may not be ovulating, your tubes may be blocked, PCOS, endometriosis, thyriod disorders, under or over weight, or your partner may have sperm problems.
2007-03-21 03:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Infertility may be the most difficult thing for a women to accept. What did your doctor look for? Generally they take a look at your ovaries via ultrasound, by doing pap smears. If you've been trying for about three years, it may be possible it is your partner. He could have a low sperm count, or mobility or something. Both should be checked. Further, if your doc. prescribed for you to take some drugs to either induce the release of eggs, it could be that your tubes are blocked, your Doc may ask you questions about weight gain, hair loss, hair growth on face, if you've had irregular pap smears before and other questions to determine if they may be. Sometimes a simple surgery will open them, it really depends on the situation. If your tubes are not blocked, there is a thing called IUI. what they do is, when you ovulate, they take your guy's sperm and insert a small tube, (it will feel just like a pap smear) and put his sperm inside your cervix, so they don't have to travel so far. It's generally the least expensive thing to do, and if you don't have a big problem or a different case, should be a good turn out.
sometimes it could be genetic. It's difficult. I'm the same age as you, been trying for same time, but i've gone to see my doc, and I'm fine as well, and my husband's sperm is fine, there's just no luck. good luck to you.
2007-03-21 04:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by annlyvqp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared to go to the doctor? Whatever you are doing, it is not working. Go to a different doctor and ask for help. You might be having sex at the wrong time of the month, your husband might have low sperm count, you might have a medical condition. If you find out what the problem is, you can find a solution. If there is no solution and you are unable to have children, then you can start accepting this fact and make different plans for your life.
Random strangers on the internet cannot diagnose a medical problem for you. A doctor can. He can also give you a solution, if there is one. Don't be afraid.
2007-03-21 03:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by anne p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a hard time getting pregnant and I was told that every 7 years a woman's body changes and on year 7 I had my first baby. The doctor couldn't find anything wrong with me either. They did a test on hubby's sperm and they were fine also. Sometimes stress can cause all sort of weird things to happen too. As soon as we started adopting, I got pregnant...when we weren't focusing on it. Trying is the fun part though...enjoy it =) Good luck!
2007-03-21 03:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound JUST LIKE ME! You probably have PCOS. The Doctors would ALWAYS tell me nothing was wrong until I finally went to a Doctor that said, something is wrong. Find a Doctor that will look into it more and will help because something is wrong! And it sounds like PCOS, which is a form of infertility that can be treated if you don't wait too late!
2007-03-21 03:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be your mate or a number of reasons. My sister tried for 4 years and another 3 with fertility. She had numerous artificial inseminations that didn't work before her third invitro was successful. She has had 2 more all within a year of the last. Sometimes, you try too hard or are concentrating to hard and it sorta makes your body build up a defense against it or something. I tried for 2 years myself with no luck, until finally when I got my mind off of it, it happened. Good Luck!
2007-03-21 03:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your doctor says you are fine, then your partner should definitely go to the doctor to see if he is able to impregnate you. Both parties can contribute to difficulty in getting pregnant. Also, did your doctor do a complete analysis? Or did you just tell her you were concerned, and she dismissed those concerns? There are a number of tests both you and your partner need to undertake in order to determine if there is a medical problem preventing you from getting pregnant.
2007-03-21 03:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A FEW REASONS IF YOUR DOCTOR SAID YOUR FINE MAYBE YOUR STRESSING TOO MUCH WHICH PLAYS A MAJOR ROLE IN CONCEPTION TAKE A BREAK DON'T THINK ABOUT IT . ANOTHER IS IT MIGHT NOT BE TIME I AM A CHRISTIAN AND I BELIEVE GOD GIVES US BLESSINGS WHEN WE ARE READY FOR THEM YOUR ONLY 23 ARE YOU MARRIED,HAVE GOOD STABILITY IN YOUR LIFE KIDS ARE A WHOLE NEW BALL GAME OF LIFE . ENJOY BEING YOUNG AND WHEN ITS RIGHT IT WILL COME.
2007-03-21 04:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by denise clark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres an easy answer for you. If you have been TRYING for three years and your doctor tells you all is fine and hasn't told you anything that you can do to increase your chances, like clomid, or tests, or anything. THEN CHANGE YOUR DOCTOR!!!
2007-03-21 03:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by sicilygrl8 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could you have endometrosis ? i have this also but only had it mild i have twins now but my sister in law has it severe and is also having trouble conceiving, talk to ur GP Hun for your own peace of mind xx
good luck
2007-03-21 03:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be having sex at the wrong time of month. Get an ovulatuion predictor kit.
2007-03-21 03:49:37 · answer #11 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋