I think i fancy my best friend but i don't know if he fancys me
i'm really scared incase he says no and never speaks to me again what should i do. Should I tell him that i fancy him or should i just keep it to myself , I Badly Need Some Advice
can anyone help me
2007-03-21 03:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by kerryann m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had this same problem as you. I was really in love with my best mate for around 2 years and never said anything cos I was scared I'd lose him as a mate and I couldn't handle that. I had other b/f's and he had other g/f's but we always had time for each other. One night around Xmas our other friends were joking that we should get married cos we got on so well. we had a bit much to drink and had a bit of a snog. That was 3 years ago. And I'm happy to tell you, we know have a house together, a baby on the way and a wedding booked for next summer. Just go for it hunny, if he doesn't want it, pas it off as a joke but it could possibly be the best thing you ever do,., I know it was when I snogged my best mate.......
2007-03-21 03:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls if they find out best mate fancies them are all nasty and mean and dont want to be friends anymore
Guys are usually cool with it and even if they dont fancy you still want to be mates... just hands off mates.
And would probably help you find a new love.
If he fancies you could make a best mate and top boyfrined
Certainly better then a bad boy who treats you bad.
Plus you will have lots on common so not just sex stuff.
Guys often fancy best girl mates but feel like you only worse as you girsl often dump them and it seems the guy is supposed to be some kind of expert.
So tell him...
you have not put ages so dont know best appraoch...
Get more touchy feely like ticking
And hugs and see how he reats... where tight tops and see if he notices you have boobs and not a guy...
but ask him out say to the cinema... pref a scarey movie so you can pretend to be all scared and need a cuddly and arm around you, then say he can reach further if he wants or kiss you.
Or play games like nervous... slowly running hand up each others arms asking are you nervous? saying yes means stop.
2007-03-21 07:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may just have a wee crush on him but if you feel that strongly then you need to tell him, you never know, maybe he fancies you too but was to afraid to say anything, like you in case it messes up the friendship. life is too short, so go for it I say!! I think if he really is a good friend then even by telling him you have feelings wont stop him from ever speaking or seeing you! He will probably be totally flattered if anything!
good luck!
2007-03-21 03:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fancied my best friend at Uni. I never told her because I was too scared of ruining our friendship. I have lost contact now but still sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had asked her out. I wouldn't miss out if I was you as you will regret it. Ask him and hope for the best.
2007-03-21 03:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, has he been giving any signs that he might like you? What do your gal friends think? The worst thing that can happen is if you tell him and he never speaks to you again. If he does that, he wasn't that great a friend. Even if he doesn't like you, if he's a good enough friend, he should be able to get past that.
2007-03-21 03:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tapioca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not 'incorrect' purely undergo in recommendations that in case you probably did flow out it would be slightly awkward on your brother so supply him the income of the doubt if he seems slightly off approximately it. additionally if issues ended badly it would be slightly undesirable on your brother to boot. in certainty possibly you will possibly desire to ask your brother if he'd be pleased with it :) lol yet once you're relatively helpful decide for it in any case solid luck x
2016-10-19 06:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to like ur best friend, i think it happens to most people who have a best friend of the opposite sex. I think you should talk to him about it and see what he says, i dont think it would push him away in case he dosent want anyting just clarify that you would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all in case he says he dosent like you in that way
2007-03-21 03:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by KrazySweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships change and evolve, even between BF.
You won't be able to supress your feelings so you might as well be true to yourself.
These kinds of emotions are what makes life special.
Good luck
2007-03-21 03:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things are possible. My boyfriend was my best friend for a long time first. Let your feelings out.
2007-03-21 03:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ginny Jin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it is human nature to fancy he will take it as a complement ,an you never now were it might lead .
2007-03-21 03:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋