he throws his legs and arms like torpedos, i have brusies this hurts and i havent had a good night sleep in a long time what do i do? i wake up cranky and then he walks around the house grabing parts of my body like t&a im flattered but i feel like i have no part of me or my space thats mine anymore. talking dosent seem to help and latly i throw a punch when grabs at something. hes like a kid sometimes hell do it and run. need help?
2007-03-21 03:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by allenshaunna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have a spare room...use it...hide LOL
If your husband is beating you in his sleep, he needs to see a doctor and have a sleep study done...
2007-03-21 06:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A larger bed and separate blankets may go a long way to solving this problem. A king sized bed is absolutely huge. A california king will easily fit 4-5 adults. My parents have a cali king and all 5 of us have laid in it together to watch a movie with no discomfort. Each of you having your own blanket will keep him from stealing all the covers without you having to resort to sleeping elsewhere. You also may want to suggest your husband have a sleep study. Such excessive movement at night probably means he isn't sleeping completely either.
2007-03-21 10:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by rosekm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think I'm crazy, but, some men do this on purpose. Think he's asleep? Maybe not. I've read some stuff that would curl your hair about guys that are passive aggressive. Read up on passive aggressive behavior.
If he is NOT passive aggressive after you read about it, alter his diet before bed. No caffeine, no sugar, 3 hours before bed. Give him a little Nyquil or a sleeping pill so he sleeps soundly.
If all this doesn't work, throw him in the guest room or on the couch.
2007-03-21 10:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time the torpedo arms come out during sleep turn him over pin him down take what u want show no mercy and sleep blissfully
2007-03-21 10:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it's time for you to get your own bed with your own blankets. just because you are married doesn't mean that you have to share the same sleeping space. get your own bed, or better yet...your own room. if he has a problem with that...too bad. your sleep is just as important as his. i don't share my bed with anyone. i need my space and i make sure to tell my partner that.
2007-03-21 10:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twin beds!!!!!!! This way you will be able to take the squeezes when you are awake. You need a good nights sleep, so twin beds.
2007-03-21 10:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my hubby. I had to start sleeping on the couch b/4 he finally listened to me. He got tired of sleeping alone!
2007-03-21 10:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW he can throw his arms and legs like torpedoes......how do they come off.how does he re attach them.......why are you leaving body parts around the house..ARE YOU BARBIE AND KEN?
2007-03-21 10:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do this experiment-one day tie his limbs at night when he is asleep,next day or after some time he will get the message.
2007-03-21 10:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by manavi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray about this sweetheart! your in my prayers,and god bless!
2007-03-21 10:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋