What should i do?

Question

I want to leave my parents house ASAP, no NOW. I am 18years old.Female.Living in Mumbai. Can't bear anyone here! I don't have any bank balance or any money to get a house or a place to live, don't want to take money from someone.I cant live at my friend's place too.Is there any solution to this.Plz Help!

Answer 1

Listen to all these peoples' wonderful advices and get a job. Until you get your salary enough to buy a house, you just have to bare with life at home.

Answer 2

Hey Tani

Wat is this kid stuff. this is big bad world. Stay with ur parents till u get a suitable job and well settled career. In this world nobody will take care of u as of ur parents. Friends are there but when u have something to give otherwise ur a junk yard to the world without money or house of ur own. So my suggestion to u that u stay at home

Answer 3

Are you in any danger in your family home? Have you got abusive parents? Is there a specific need to go now? It depends on your circumstances of why you want to leave as to what answer is close to your solution. You did not explain much. Would you like to give some more details please?

Best wishes,

Lisa

Answer 4

My dear Tani

I dont know your real situation. But I know that you are unhappy over your parents and sad inyour life right now.

Do one thing,
go to the nearest hospital
and spend an hour or two.
see the patients who all come there.
compare with your self.

after an hour you will come to know, how kind God has been to us
and
how lucky we are when compared to all those suffering people.

and also

why we should not feel sad .

You should believe me. I do that every now and then atleast once in 3 months.



Now let us come to your problem.

You want to leave your parents. ..... I agree with you.

But what you will do right now ....... from what you say .... you have not yet made your plans properly...

Remember, if you go now, .......
you face the risk of ending up with the bad people
and get damaged in the life.


the life for a girl is very unsafe.
90% of the men try to misuse the girls who are not their sisters or daughters.

I dont want to elaborate, but you have seen enough movies.


on the other hand, if you plan and leave

you will be safe and happy.
thats what you want to achieve in life.

For that .............. you need a job ............
a good job,
which will give you more than whatever you get in your parents house right now.

are you good enough for a good job. think of it.

if you are good enough to get a good job,
then wait till such time you get a good job.
and then go away from your parents.

otherwise, wait and get yourself ready for a good job.

till such time you get the right qualifications and skills for a good job.

then you can leave.

If you do not have, what ever I have prescribed right above,

then my dear girl,
you have to tolerate your parents and bear with them
and
try to get your studies or skills good enough for a good job.


Now you know the answer your self.

But still let me say..

Please and Please reconsider you decision
and
do not leave your parents now.
you are too young.
and you will regret for all your mistakes after 30
that is when you become a mother yourself.

I pray to God, that he gives you happiness
and
he gives you right guidance after reading this.

Good luck and safe life.





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Answer 5

I have been where you are at now...currently, I'm 24........I left the house at 18 and moved in with my boyfriend just to get away from them................now I look back and regret it..........I've got a ton of debt from credit cards and borrowing money just to make ends meet...............IT SUCKS
also, because of the screwed up relationship with my parents, every other relationship I now try to build also becomes screwed in some way..............
The relationship that you have with your parents may be bad now, but I can promise you that by the time you are 24 if will be better................just remember that how you approach them now will follow you into your twenties
Be safe,
Bama

Answer 6

yes, the solution is to stay in your parents house. we all think that way especially when we get into fight with them. am 18 too, i had that idea before but like you i have no money nor a place to go to, but trust me the only place that can hold you and that you can be safe in is your parents house, i know they can be annoying sometime( all the time) but you should stand them they're your parents after all. wish you luck

Answer 7

But Why U Wanna Leave Ur Parents,

Answer 8

Getting a job does wonders for curing poverty.

Try not to take life as a "NOW NOW NOW" situation. You may be best taking some time to build up a solid bankroll, looking at your financial options, searching for a cost-efficient living arrangement, etc etc.

Satisfy your wants in haste, regret in leisure.

Answer 9

kewl im 18 m and from Mumbai too .

Get online(chat rooms etc) , and find someone who will accomodate you for an affordable price which you will be able to repay her later . Target people who live all by themselves , like have their own flat etc.
For all you know , you might get a free stay!

Answer 10

You have to get a job first, so you can get a place to live.
If the situation is too unbearable- then ask an aunt or uncle to let you live there until you can afford your own place.