My husband and I have been together for several years. We were once incredibly savvy in the bedroom, however, as the years have progressed our sexcapades happen far less often. I know this isn't uncommon. We talk about it often and openly; we have explored uncharted areas and added new things to our repitore. My husband has a strong sexual appetite. I enjoy sex but don't have the same drive that he does. He gets frustrated and feels that I am less attracted to him than I once was. I guess I feel caught up with so many other elements in our busy life that I tend to forget that I am a sexual being. I have tried several things to ignite my desire and make our sex life more of a priority, but I'm finding it very challenging. Any suggestions?
2007-03-21 02:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by nikirio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look to the lord!! god bless you sweetheart !!! your in my prayers!!
2007-03-21 02:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We sometimes fall into this rut. You say that you want to make it a priority again. If something is a priority you consciously plan around it, not try to squeeze it in when its convenient. What we do is talk about it, then usually we agree that we are gonna do it x number of times this week, and follow up. We find that by doing this we both end up thinking about sex when we are apart, this leads to more desire, and befor you know it things are back to where they belong. P.S. when the wifes drive deminishes we do feel like we are attractive to them anymore.
2007-03-21 10:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to slow down in other area's of your life, so that you have the energy and desire to be with your husband when he needs you.
It's too easy to get caught up in the humdrum of everyday life and forget the important things....
Good luck.
2007-03-21 09:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can put something off to give you more time than do it, but explain to him that it can't be an every night thing. My husband is the same way, he thinks we have to go crazy in the bedroom and he wants it everynight, but to me it's better if ya wait 1 couple of days to actually want to do it
2007-03-21 09:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm this is tough
it might be that u need a different co ck
i m only being honest
the only i got like that is because i need to try something different and once u tried it and it was good
ur sexual desire will come back
and maybe ur sexual energy will lead towards ur hubby
2007-03-21 09:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know really what too say other than i have been down the same road, i say go see your GYN & see what she suggests. I know u can buy stemulator & creams at any VIP store, that where i started & things are better. Good luck.
2007-03-21 09:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by bdgizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is off guard just try sudducing him like blind folding him and leading him to the bedroom and then go from there.
2007-03-21 09:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get kinky together and do things together that are bizarre. But of course that only involve the two of you.
2007-03-21 09:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband he isnt alone
2007-03-21 09:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋