I have this ex best friend and shes always hurting me (mentally/physically), i sometimes feel like bursting into tears sometimes cos i feel so lonely.... and...well can't explain the rest... help me
2007-03-21 02:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok thankies all of you, your really nice, helpful people (i'm not a suck up lol) :-)
2007-03-21 02:46:46 · update #1
this is why she is an "exbestfriend". my best advice is to stop all communication. you deserve better sweetheart! god bless you and you are in my prayers.
2007-03-21 02:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to put up with a bully, but you will have to learn to ignore her if possible. But if she is doing things that are harmful to you, you may have to turn to an adult to put her in her place, I think alot of schools have bullying laws now so if you need help to get her to leave you alone PLEASE go to someone you trust. I know you don't realise now but hse is not worth your time of day to even acknowledge she exist if it's just word's the more you ignore her and act like doesn't bother you the less pleasure she will get from being the bully, if she think's it is really bothering you she won't stop, so even though it hurt's try not to let her know.
Good Luck
2007-03-21 09:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is a true friend, especially if she is abusing you both physically, and mentally. If she continues to, i think you should tell someone you trust, maybe another friend, or a parent, teacher, guidance counselor, doctor, or well, just anyone you trust. I'm really sorry you have to go through this. She doesn't abuse me or anything, but one of my friends, seems like she's only using me. She only talks to me when she wants something, like, when she wants me to help her with her homework, (more like do it for her), or when she wants to borrow something of mine. I guess i should take my own advice. Just dont let your so called friend abuse you. It is never right for anyone to hurt you like that. I'm really sorry. Good luck!!!
2007-03-24 22:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by mysterious girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was never your friend because friends don't treat eachother that way.people can only treat you the way that you allow them to.Why would you let this person abuse you.Stand up for yourself and tell her to take a hike.If you are miserable only you can change the way you feel.Stop being a door matt and stand up for yourself...Feeling sorry for yourself won't help...
2007-03-21 09:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to stay away from her. some people like to hurt other people because they feel bad about themselves and people who dont stand up for themselves are easy targets. you dont say how old you are so it is hard try to help u, try to make other friends who treat u well. u need to help yourself by staying away from people that bring u down. good luck,honey.
2007-03-21 09:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ain't yo f****ng friend if she hurting you. The next time she hit you or say something to you. Beat her A**
2007-03-21 09:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by mrintelligent12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you don't want to be her friend any more there is no reason to let any one abuse you
2007-03-21 09:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋