2007-03-21 02:21:44 · 15 answers · asked by clare w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They aren't afraid to commit (99.9% of the time) when they are with the RIGHT WOMAN.
Hmmm? Figuring out if you are with the right one takes a little time, and sometimes men stay with the wrong one hoping she'll change, and then she starts asking why are men afraid to commit.
Maybe your time would be better spent addressing just why the men you are dating will not commit to you?
2007-03-21 02:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a generalization being made against men.
Not all men are scared of committment. You just haven't found the right one. Once you find a good man he'll be around with you for a long time.
Perhaps you should broaden the range of men you go out with because it would seem that the type of men you have been with in the past have the fear of committment. Not all men are like that.
2007-03-21 02:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I needless to say don't have all the main factors of the placement yet why might you date a married guy to start with? identifying to break up is an particularly very own and confusing determination even while your companion has performed some very hurtful issues. while human beings get married they suspect they are going to be jointly continuously and while issues happen or one individual does some extremely undesirable issues it nonetheless hurts once you eventually do determine to cut up. i does not assume him to make any genuine lasting commitments for a jointly as, he desires time to heal and besides the fact that if he does make a dedication to you it could not final because of fact it became form of a rebound element. in case you adore him you will wait and comprehend that he's is having a hard time, which will advise plenty better than in case you have been to stress him to commit.
2016-11-27 19:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with today's new brand of "liberated" woman. There is very little benefit (for a man) that marries a girl who does not have traditional values. Most women today will have sex with a man without marrying him. If they do marry him they will not cook, clean, or stay home with a baby so why would a man want to marry someone like that? He already does his own laundry, cooking and cleaning and gets all the sex he wants without the commitment of marriage.
2007-03-21 02:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These statements apply to women and men:
Commitment = some aren't scared, some are scared but won't admit and do things behind your back (because they are afraid of being alone, aka chicken **** coward), some show they are scared so you get a clue that they don't want you only (against monogamy).
Marriage = the same as above.
Children = either they want or not, no one is scared about children.
2007-03-21 03:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Helo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are afraid of commitment, like myself. You really need to see if your the problem and not the man in your life. Maybe he just doesn't want to marry you?
2007-03-21 02:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is so easy to loose 1/2 of everything you have just because the woman wants a change of pace. No wonder pre-nups are more common now then 40 years ago. People just are not committed to a relationship as they used to be and it has had a profound effect on this country.
2007-03-21 02:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your questions indict *all* men.
That's like me asking, why do "women" promise men sex forever and then stop having sex after they get married? Why do "women" gain weight and quit trying after the wedding? Why do "women" fake orgasms and 'pretend' to be pregnant? Why? WHY?
It's not ALL women. And in the same way, your questions don't apply to ALL men - just the doofus grease fire losers you've been dating. ;-D
If you've been meeting guys a certain place, like a bar or a flea market, then stop going there to meet guys. Try going to a museum or a baseball game or the opera.
2007-03-21 03:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many, many men that want to get married and have children- you just have not met one yet!
2007-03-21 02:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Major decisions take great time to analyze. I'm still "feeling out" my girlfriend...and although I originally said I'd probably be OK with marrying her, I now realize that it just isn't going to happen. Women are so anxious to ruin their lives with marriage and kids. Go travel and have fun. You have your whole life to be miserable if you want.
Here's what men think:
Marry in haste, regret in leisure.
2007-03-21 02:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋