Okay im 18 years old and I'm 18 weeks pregnant (4 months and half). I get really scared because sometimes I get so mad that I fight with my boyfriend like a maniac. Then I get scared I will have a miscarrage or my baby will come out with problems. The fights arent that much but still, im super paranoid. I try my best not to fight but sometimes, HE DRIVES ME CRAZY! When you have a miscarrage, do you start bleeding right away and do you feel cramps or anything? Im scared, I havent had any blood or cramps, I feel normal but this pregnancy has me all paranoid =-( . I regret screaming and everything after the fights, but at the moment I cant control myself. Anyone that can help my answer? =(
2007-03-21 02:17:34 · 9 answers · asked by curious789 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Regarding a miscarriage, you can bleed heavily and have cramping or you can have none of these things. My first miscarriage at about 6 weeks I had heavy bleeding and passing of large clots, but no real cramping. My second one I had nothing. My body absorbed the fetus. Women who have had miscarriages experience different symptoms. You really should get your feelings and anger under control, for your well being and the well being of your baby. Stress and anger are not good for either of you. Consider speaking to a professional. You may feel better. Also you need to speak to your boyfriend about what is going on, calmly though.
2007-03-21 02:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your body is going to do everything in its power to protect that baby. However, I had a miscarriage, and never started bleeding or anything, I didn't find out until several weeks later, was in the doctor's office for a checkup, and there was no heartbeat. I had to have a D&C, but I was at 11 weeks. MOST miscarriages (not all) happen during the first trimester. If you're really concerned, go to the doctor's office and ask to listen to the baby's heartbeat. You should also start feeling movement within a few weeks, so that will ease your concerns as well.
I don't know if you and your boyfriend are living together or not, but you guys need to start preparing to become parents, either together or separately. This baby is going to bind the 2 of you together for the rest of your lives, unless you're planning to put the baby up for adoption (something I'd reccommend if you're not financially or emotionally prepared to raise a child) Having a baby is hard work, raising children is hard work too. It's not all fun and games. You and your boyfriend need to seek some kind of counseling for these fights, it's no environment to raise a child in. You need to LEARN to control yourself, the screaming and everything isn't good for you either, it raises your blood pressure, increases your heart rate, etc.
2007-03-21 09:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage last year and I had bleeding and cramping. My mother also had 2 miscarriages with the same symptoms. I've had 3 children and I know when you're pregnant your hormones are always fluctuating and sometimes we tend to overreact. If you feel you're getting upset just walk away and try to avoid any confrontation. But, if you still feel concerned about a miscarriage, call your doctor and let them know you would like a check-up because you feel something may be wrong. Most doctors are very understanding and will check everything out to put you at ease. Good Luck!
2007-03-21 09:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 18 at least you are considered an adult. You need to stop fighting with your boyfriend. You both have just created a miracle of life now you keep flight and this little bundle of joy is going to grow up in a very unhealthy household. Learn now if you want to be together with the daddy or start to move on and figure out what you are going to do with your baby.
2007-03-21 09:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by hudgey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't always bleed with a miscarrage i didn't have cramps or anything just went to the doc. for regular appt. and he couldn't find a heartbeat. First you need to stop the fighting if he bugs you that much just stay away from him for your and your baby's sake. If you were to fall or something you would really hurt yourself and child. be responsible don't put you or your child any a situation that might be harmful for either of you
2007-03-21 10:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off stress is not a good thing either, so you need to stop freaking out about it, second your chance of miscarriage is so much lower now, talk to your doctor he or she can give you some advice and try to calm you down
good luck
2007-03-21 09:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure your baby will be fine and perfect!! but you really must try your very best to not get stressed out as much as possible. good luck n God Bless!!
2007-03-21 09:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Min l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure your baby will be fine and perfect!! but you really must try your very best to not get stressed out as much as possible. good luck!
2007-03-21 09:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by deceptions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a counselor about your anger issues.
2007-03-21 09:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by phamy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋