soo for like the last 3-4 weeks ive been paranoid about my girlfriend being pregnant due to alot of unprotected sex, and she took 2 day after pill packages within a week and a half (so i was and still am praying that that is the issue along with stress)...but she took a pregnancy test over a week ago and it said negative, then she took one yesterday morning as her first morning urination and it was negative, is this a good sign of her not being pregnant?? i realize theres always a possibility but what do you think my chances are?? she says that shes not having any pregnancy symptoms and says the pills messed up her cycle and that shes been stressing alot also and that thats why she gets headaches (ive been paranoid cuz she always has headaches)...shes going to the doc in 3 days but im just curious of my chances, theyre looking up right?
2007-03-21 02:08:41 · 13 answers · asked by clownwitafrown2 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also, fyi, i was the one who got her the 2 different day after pills, reason being, we were both dumb and irresponsible, and had alotta unprotected sex, and after the first time she took it (cuz i got paranoid) we had sex the next weekend, and did it again unprotected, and i freaked out again and she got scared and took it again to be safe since she isnt on birth control yet, shes been trying to make an appointment to do so, so soon enough she will be, as long as the doctor doesnt tell her shes pregnant, i just tend to look at the big picture in the long run, in the worst conditions just to be prepared for anything, so im still scared, but after the second negative test and thinking about how messed up her cycle could be due to the 2 pill packages she took 'within' her cycle may i add (in the middle 2 weeks), im starting to feel confident that the pills along with stress really messed her up...ive learned a lesson and hope that this is what i learn, not a baby, wish me luck, thanx
2007-03-21 04:19:56 · update #1
I'm sure the pills messed up her cycle, they are very high dose hormones. if she tested yesterday and it was negative, you are probably safe.. good luck to you and a friendly suggestion about finding an effective form of birth control to you :)
2007-03-21 02:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better wait and find out from the doctor. When was the last time you had unprotected sex? It usually takes several weeks for hCG levels to show up on a pregnancy test. If it's been three weeks, and she's had negative tests since then, she's probably negative.
When she goes to the doctor, I suggest she get on regular birth control. This way, there won't be the constant worry. Just make sure you use condoms until the pill becomes effective. I think it's a full week after they're taken regularly.
2007-03-21 02:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Stephene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd say you got lucky this time. Try not having unprotected sex unless you're fully capable of handling ALL the consequences. Pregnancy is just one of them too, there are all sorts of STD's out there, just waiting for idiots to not use condoms and catch.
And her taking 2 day after pills inside of a week WOULD totally mess up her cycle. Those pills are to be used for emergencies only, not as a primary means of birth control. She probably needs to be on birth control pills, but you NEED TO USE A CONDOM!!!
2007-03-21 02:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The day after pill is not a means of birthcontrol. If she's taking those every week and a half, something is seriously wrong. Get her on birth control, use a condom, SOMETHING! Those pills will mess up her cycle, especially if she used two in one cycle. From what you've said, I'd say she's probably not pregnant. But please, tell her to quit taking so many day after pills, it isn't intended for that kind of use. Best of luck.
2007-03-21 03:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first this should teach you a lesson and to use protection. usually you would know 2 weeks to 1 month it depends on the person and also when in the month in relation to her normal cycle she though she got pregnant. it's averaged 13 days or so after the last day of her cycle is to be the fertile period. Hope you are not and prevent this from happening again by being smart about things or you may be a father before your ready~!
2007-03-21 02:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by vcaring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irregardless of what your chances are, I just hope youve learned an important lesson here. If your not ready to sire children and/or not willing to take responsibility for siring them then either dont have sex or use a condom. If you decide that you dont ever want to be a father then you need to get a vasceptamy. It aint just the responsibility of the woman to guard against unwanted children. It's also the man's. Good luck.
2007-03-21 02:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely she is right, the pills probably just messed up her system. the Dr. will do a blood test then you will know for sure.
you should really start protecting yourself better if you arent ready to be a daddy!
good luck
2007-03-21 02:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She took 2 DAY AFTER PILLS in 10 days????????
She should see a doctor asap.
I hope you've learned your lessons.
2007-03-21 02:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by phamy76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to try the early pregnancy test, the one that she can use few days before her period starts.. plus u shouldnt worry much if u didnt *** inside her. you shouldnt be paranoid and scared, and dont scare her.. just wait til she gets her period, if she misses it, then get worried.
2007-03-21 02:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have lots of sex with someone else and see what happens-then you'll know for sure whether you're shooting blanks..."dad."
2007-03-21 02:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋