Hi Friends.He proposed to me long before 8 months but when he proposed I didnt agree due to my family reasons.Then after a long time and discussion in my mind I came to conclusion that he will be my correct choice.But as I was irritating him for the past long times I was not able to express my Love.I really was afraid whether he will accept me or not.Thats how the days went and suddenly one day he said he is going to get engaged.I thought He was kidding but he really got engaged and now marry too.I totally disturbed.I dont know what to do.Whatever I do I get his thought only.The only happiness I have is He is happy with wife thats it.But I miss him a lot.I dont know how to forget him
2007-03-21 02:08:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hey; I'm going though something similar that your going though. your thoughts of the past will never go away but you got to,,,,,, got to put them away please believe me your thoughts are still there with him but he has let his past go ,not to sound like you wasn't nothing in his life but if there is that glimmer of a special moment in you All's time he will be back you are never forgotten,,,,just put and push your pass to the side and move on its still OK to be friends cause friends never end...... if he ignore you, your in his mind deeply but keep in mind he could flip on you to make matters worst, then you get etc then all of a sudden king crazy come out of you,,,,,,, move on but keep close ,,,,,, go on cause it will drive you insane
2007-03-21 03:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by hg.1022 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, i'd like to say i'm sorry about this predicament but, do you really think it's worth wasting your thoughts on a man who has left you? he's left you to get married with another woman and thinking about him will only dellude you into believing there's a chance with him. get out there. do something else. get someone else. he's not worth your thoughts and your worries. there are SO many other people to meet and make friends with but it's good that you're happy for him, but be happy for yourself.
chin up!
2007-03-21 09:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but if he is already engaged to someone else then he was either cheating on you or not serious about loving you. Let him go you can do better. Give it time you will get over him and find your soul mate. It won't happen overnight but it will happen.
2007-03-21 09:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you have given this much thought. Be happy for the man you loved....and be happy for yourself. Don't expect to forget this man anytime soon, dear one. A broken heart does not mend quickly.
Stay busy, get out with friends, and don't drink your sorrows. Live well....he was not your soul mate.
2007-03-21 09:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't forget another person... he is in your memory for life... unless you would have Alzheimer's...
what you need to do is to process the emotion you are dealing with... denying will make it worst... accept it... getting angry will make it worst... forgive him... he is only human... keeping him in your emotions is bad... you just have to let it go... you are worth more than what you are having right now... see that you are a person of great worth and needs to move on... just accept it... forgive him... let it go... and move on... live you life... because he is living his... :-)
I hope I helped... ;-)
2007-03-21 09:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
always remember him as not love you more than you love him
that one way for you to move forward with your life
2007-03-21 09:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i understand how u feel. just try 2 relax n get another boyfren, it'll help........
2007-03-21 09:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Gem-in-i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋