2007-03-21 01:41:51 · 27 answers · asked by clapo7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont..........you cant change anyone. Only they themselves can change if they want to. I wouldnt want anyone to change me and vice versa. If someones looking to try and change you then either find a compromise if they are worth it or move on..........you wont be happy with each other.
2007-03-21 01:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by hollyb20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Men and Women think that they can! But they cant. You can influence your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend to change, but you can not change them. Change takes time and effort from the person who needs it. Women try to push on their men to change, but you cant push. You have to approach it with love and just influence in a good way on How they should treat you, or On how they should speak to other people, etc.
But listen, men dont want to change because they are selfish. And women sometimes dont want to change because they are selfish! Its not about being stubbron, but as a couple you need to compromise and make each other happy, even if that means you dont like it.
2007-03-21 01:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say love is blind. Then, what i think we are all guilty of is when the love wears off, so to speak, we see the stark reality
and unwittingly try to change certain aspects of people we don't like.
If we were with someone completely compatible we would have no reason whatsoever to change them.
And God, is that a nice feeling!
But arne't men, to an extent, guilty of the same thing?
2007-03-21 08:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think women want to change a man into something different, they want to change the different man he becomes after a while into a relationship, into the same man she fell in love with!
2007-03-21 01:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think that their girlfriend will not change for ever and that is the reason they marry her, but unfortunately a revolution will happen in them after marriage which is basically unwanted by men and women think their lovely boyfriend is vary easy to be changed and according to their desire and that’s their reason for marriage, but unfortunately their character can never be shaped, just it can be demolished.
2007-03-21 01:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by jamshid m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they look at all the good in a person when they fall in love and then after time want to fix everything that is wrong.
It doesn't work, but it takes a few rounds of losing a man to realize that it doesn't work.
It comes with experience and maturity.
2007-03-21 01:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by sassinya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some men think they can change women
2007-03-21 01:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not that they think they can they just want to.
when you meet a man you dont know everything about them, so when you get to know more about their personality and habits, you get annoyed and hope to be able to stop them.
sadly it does not work, so we all need to learn that you have to take them warts and all.
because lets face it women can be just as annoying and i am sure men would like to change some things about us as well. so we just have to get on with it and take the rough with the smooth
2007-03-21 02:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most women are perfectionists. They want everything and every little detail to be perfect or else it doesn't feel right. Maybe you should listen to what she's saying, there might be something behind it all. Or maybe something's bothering her.
2007-03-21 01:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by J.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for two reasons:
1) They like a part of him but not the whole package.
2) They are desperate for a man that anythin will do believin that they can perform the magic wen he becomes her husband.
But they neva can.
2007-03-21 01:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by nkemnonchalant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋