2007-03-21 01:39:38 · 18 answers · asked by x x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. if u dont go beyond the limit it may, it depends on ur life partner.
2007-03-21 01:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only If You Find A partner That Enjoys The Same Fetishes.
2007-03-21 09:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a female, perhaps -- if it doesn't always have to be worked in. If you are a guy - probably not. Such is life.
Either way - let your partner know long before marriage in excruciating detail all about these fetishes. No springing this info on them after the wedding.
2007-03-21 09:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a fetish or just a preference? If you can't enjoy sex w/out these things then its a fetish and you should seek counseling. However, these things can be incorporated in a healthy marriage as long as aggression or violence doesn't occur. If your wife is willing (discuss this long before marriage) to experiment then, by all means, enjoy. Don't try to get her to try it twice if she didn't enjoy it the 1st time...you'll just creep her out. Tell her what you like and have her tell you what she likes, then both try to enjoy each others' fantasies.
2007-03-21 09:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by mamasonny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure it would be successful if you communicate.
Your partner is only human so I would imagine that he/she would have their own fetishes. So discuss each of your fantasies and live them. Otherwise you may never get the chance which would be disappointing. Believe me......... I have lived mine..... dancing slowly leading to hard sex with a girl in a skin tight Black Leather mini skirt, black stockings, black satin panties and black leather boots. Ah..... life is good
2007-03-22 04:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the way you "use" these materials. This is something you need to discuss with the person you plan to marry. A little fantasy never hurt a relationship.
However, if you cannot perform without your fetishes, you should seek help.
2007-03-21 08:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage, is not based on what you have . But what you are willing to give ,to make it work.
After a while. you will want something more.
And it won't be there.
After you grown out of your addiction, for these, things, Then what will you do?
2007-03-21 12:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have same fetishes i ma a guy... and i found out too late my wife will nto be able to handle such fetishes.. so i suffer in silence.. dont make same mistake as me.. tell your wife/husband about it...
2007-03-21 08:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would work as long as you and your spouse are into it or at least the other party is open minded enough to value your interests.
2007-03-21 08:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you communicate this to your wife, and she accepts it. I would say that listening and understanding her boundaries is also important.
2007-03-21 08:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋