If someone is ugly on the outside, I want nothing to do with that person, even if he or she is the nicest and-or most fun person on earth? But if a person is attractive, I am willing to overlook just about anything, just because that person is hot.
2007-03-21 00:46:10 · 22 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is not your fault.This is how most human beings tend to judge people..by their outer looks.It is a great thing that u have realised your problem.Now u should work on it.Try to see people as human beings..not just as pretty or ugly faces.Think what would happen to u if your face would get deformed in some accident and which people would still accept u.Try to be more kind and nice to everyone..and u would find that one day u dont have to try it anymore..it would come natuarally.My prayers are with u..and if u get nice enough...u'll be in everyone's prayers!lol.good luck:)
2007-03-21 00:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same exact problem. I loved to make friends with the most attractive/hottest people even if they were just plain nasty on the inside. They were terrible to my sister and to my family and they pretty much turned me against my family. It was one of the worst mistakes of my life.
Seriously, you don't necessarily have to stop being friends with them, just give other people a chance. Be nice to everyone for a change, look past their outer shell and right into their heart. Treat everyone the same! You'll eventually find that people are so much nicer and cooler than those other friends that you've had. Seriously, give other people a chance, your friendships will be so much stronger because of it and you will become a better person.
If you just give other people a chance and don't look at their looks you will see that your attractive and snotty friends will start to become ugly and their inner self will show! Then you will become more attracted to other people and begin seeing people for who they really are. Just give everyone a chance, it will change your whole outlook on life. You'll be shocked and you'll suprise yourself if you just give everyone a chance!
2007-03-24 14:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by just a friend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to miss a lot of possibilities for "real friends". I am not saying that attractive people are not nice, but you are shallow. If you go by looks alone, you are also very vain. Vanity in moderation is dangerous, but where are you at in your head? You judge people unfairly, you also judge by what is on the surface beautiful. Looks come and go.
2007-03-21 07:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really sad and i feel sorry for you cause you'll never find someone to be with for years to come. Looks are not everything , my friend. You really need to stop being so immature and grow up, be a man and take a step towards the other way and try it out. Who knows maybe you'll have fun. :)
2007-03-21 08:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel incredibly insecure and think that your inadequacies and low self-worth will go unnoticed if you surround yourself with "beautiful" people. You are pretty shallow and don't really understand what friendships and relationships are all about - so you choose people to befriend for completely wrong reasons. Beauty is on the inside.
2007-03-21 07:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people are like this.But U r different that U truely acceplt Ur character.So I think U are really good. Now,U know yourself what's wrong with U. So,try 2 change that.
2007-03-21 08:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Janu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your an immature, your not totally grown up yet,
when the time comes you'll realize that the physical properties of a person is not imprtant its what on the inside that count,.!
try being friends w/ them,!!!!!!!
and see the results.
2007-03-21 08:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like their lives to be a certain way and others like their lives to look a certain way... Of course the latter is a house of cards... Good luck!
2007-03-21 07:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by eli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Shallow, but most people are to some degree. Hopefully now that you are aware of it, you'll be able to mentally correct it. Because guess what buddy, No body stays beautiful forever!
2007-03-21 07:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan F 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's called being shallow, sweetie. And if you continue down that path, you won't be happy because looks really don't mean anything in the scheme of things.
2007-03-21 07:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋