I split up with my long term boyfriend last October, he cheated several times.
We have had no contact, and I dont want any either!
I have recently found out tha he is Bi Sexual !!! and has been with other men!!!!!
Has this happened to anyone, either being on the receiving end like me or have you been the one to discover u are bi sexual?
Wot are ur thoughts and feelings...sensible answers please.
2007-03-21 00:40:53 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know how you feel! My ex-boyfriend never told me he was bisexual---he not only was cheating on me with a girl, but 2 girls at that. But instead of going insane and letting his a** have it, I did something even better. I kicked him to the curb. Of course, Mr. man came crawling back, but the damage was done and I moved on with my life. Guys can be awful at times, but I still love men! And that is a fact that will never change. Where he came from, there are many men out there who will be honest from day one. So sista girl don't fret, keep on keepin on!
2007-03-21 02:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Gerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 34 and borderline bi (subject to crushes on other men rather than seeking sex with them). I have had two summer romances with girls but no long term relationships. I believe honesty is the key and these days I do signal my bisexuality more readily and then girls can make an informed choice on whether to get close to me. I'm a recluse and believe that MY bi leanings have their origin in emotional immaturity. I am not seeking a partner of either gender at present since I get by quite well on flirtation and fantasy. I am conscious that I am also rebelling against a lot of gay taunts hurled at me earlier in life which may in itself have influenced me to become a more colourful character and finally make a stand. I have taken measures to monitor my sexual health since over the previous 10 years I was taking low level risks: these include vaccinations for hepatitis A and B and a HIV test. I also aim to take a hepatitis C test sometime soon as for this form there is no vaccination. I have had gay sex once, not so very long ago and it was not for me. All I really want these days is to cuddle up with a friend. I do have an attraction to women but I do not have a strong desire to reproduce and I like my freedom too much. I do consider that I might marry late in life, for company and not for sex but it may transpire that I am simply more at ease with men than women. Email me if you wish to talk more. John alias Tobermory.
2007-03-21 11:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its hard to discover that you missed something so significant about a person that you once loved. However gay and bisexual men (and women) sometimes do this (seeking out a heterosexual relationship). They do it for a number of reasons, but I would harbor a guess that your ex either didn't know he was bi or didn't want to accept it. While there is nothing wrong with the bisexuality, there is something wrong with cheating and be happy you are away from the situation.
I hope you had yourself tested after you found out he was cheating, and if you didn't, you need to do that now. You need to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases any time you are with someone who has had multiple partners, no matter if they are heterosexual or homosexual.
2007-03-21 08:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first time I ever kissed a girl it was my boyfriends doing. He thought it would be a big turn on to see me and the other girl kiss, but he got a bit jealous when he saw how much I was enjoying it. Hes now my ex and I cant stand him, but Ive got one thing to thank him for and that was getting me and the girl to kiss. Hes well gone, but the girl isnt, and Ive got to be honest, I prefer kissing her much more than I ever did my boyfriend! The way I see it is anyone from the waist up is fair game, so long as your not hurting anybody
2007-03-21 13:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by fallenangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had a girlfriend and I'm in a relationship with a guy. Its not a bad thing. Sorry if we see the good in people no matter what the gender or sexual orientation.
2007-03-21 07:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if i've been with a guy who was bi sexual, but i have recently realized that i might be bi sexual........ and i have mixed feelings about it....... in ways i want to explore it/ in others ways i dont think i would even go through with it............ and i guess it does not help if im scared to talk to people that know me about the subject.
2007-03-21 07:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by shyla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy I know is Going with this girl. and Sometimes me and Him get together and I usually curse myself for it because he is cheating on his girlfriend with another guy which is me. and Yeah I can say that your story is equivalent to his girlfriend
2007-03-21 09:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by The Power Lies Within 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋