O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about a guy friend she met up wiv 4 1st time in 3yr...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. Since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, but i backed out..then she said she was naive 2 think friends would work
2007-03-21 00:24:05 · 4 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's one of those things that time will pave out. I understand where your coming from entirely. It's best to have your distance. No need keeping old wounds fresh. Besides, some women tend to leave us wounded, playing second fiddle, so in the event their future exploits fail, they have us to fall back on. Allow time to gradually heal the whole in your heart. It's an experience you should both grow from. Sorry to hear of your break-up. Just keep your head up.
2007-03-21 00:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched a nature program where the monkeys are swinging through the jungle from vine to vine? They don't let go of the first vine until they have a good grasp on the second vine. Get the picture?
Stop texting her and move on.
2007-03-21 07:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! SHe misses parts of your relationship..yeah the sex! SHe wants to be friends and use you and have her cake and eat it too....Stay away from her do not be friends and do not drink with her.........she will NEVER change or make you happy! EVER! And if you have doupts about anything in your life? DON'T do it....that is GOD telling you not to! That is what doupts are!
2007-03-21 07:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where people come up with **** let just be friends after a sexual relationship with them? any who thinks this is possible are truly naive
2007-03-21 07:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by scooby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋