Everywhere I go people seem to remember me and I hate it. I know most people would like it but I would love to go somewhere and nobody remember that I had been before!! I have been to a deli twice and happened to order the same thing both times (they remembered what and even on the third time said do you want xxx). That deli is in Central London so not like they have 2 people in every day. The same thing happens at hairdressers, salons, newsagents etc etc!!!
2007-03-21 00:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by Charlene 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds like you have severe confidence issues.
2007-03-21 02:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by clairejgray1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a memorable face and personality. You should take it as a compliment. It sounds like you get great customer service wherever you go and most people would love that. If it bothers you so much, try wearing your hair in a different style or put on a baseball cap to change your look. You know, my wife always talks about a time in her life when she felt invisible to people. It really made her question herself and feel bad about herself. I don't think you want to experience that feeling. I think most people would love being treated the way you are when they go places.
2007-03-21 00:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be faceless, when you ignore people... looked sluggish and like you are living a pointless life... like a beggar... if you look and feel like that it will show in your face and when you go to a place they will never recognize you... for you are not worth looking at...
but then again... maybe they have a crush on you or you are just a person who stands out... that is hard to ignore... say you look like Brad Pitt... ;-) no matter how shaggy or sluggish you look like you will still be recognizable...
It is in the way you are... you might be exuding with sex appeal or charm... just lessen the show of that in the way you dress, carry yourself, look and feel.... one day try that... look like a beggar when entering a deli that people know you and they would probably ignore you... ;-)
2007-03-21 01:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it go somewhere else. You seem to be a loner and "people" are intrinsically friendly for the most part. In business it pays to notice people and remember their likes and dislikes, that is how they get return business. You either need to loosen up or go somewhere else. I am not trying to be rude but don't ruin someone else's day just because you want to be negative.
2007-03-21 00:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Geri S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one remebers you because you are a Unique person. You do that thing which no one have doe earlier. That's a nice thing. Do something that people will remember you with a good name.
2007-03-21 00:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Fiona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter. People don't tend to remember me, but they still feel perfectly comfortable commenting on what I order and what I'm doing. Perfect strangers often tell me overly personal information... My friends are baffled by this, but it's simply a related problem to being unforgettable - being overly approachable.
2007-03-21 00:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by eli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the big deal, first figure that out then deal with it. if you hate it, obviously you think it's negative and it's affecting you too much. People remember people all the time, i do, no matter how they look or act it's normal.
2007-03-21 00:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in London and no one remembers me. there are 1000 of new restaurants, cafes etc.. to go so this really is not a problem.
2007-03-21 00:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happens to me. I have a very recognizable face. It may also be because you are good-looking. You just have to put up with it - what can you do about it?
2007-03-21 00:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good thing to be remembered. Maybe you are such a nice, geniuine person people remember you. Never hate yourself.
2007-03-21 02:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by sazzy_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋