Concerning rebellion....can consequences really be stopped?

Question

If a person does something they know is wrong, which is actually a person trying to control the issue of "right", how is it that "consequences" can't be controlled or stopped? Even if someone is displeased and communicates to the person that has chosen to "mess up" that communication alone IS a consequence and in the case of a healthy person should trigger remorse.

After all, nobody has ever been able to control consequences try as they may for as long as they may. So, rebellion against "good" always causes consequences. It makes sense then to conclude people who do this all day long are malnourished in discipline and are possibly surrounded by people who don't give a rip for them... people who ignore behavior or try to cover it up for the person are usually rebellious themselves... what are your thoughts?

Answer 1

The normal behaviour of a human being is governed by his family back ground, social environment , friends,locality and school environment. Behaviour leading to rebellion sort of situation results from mutual untrust, undue pressures,asking for some thing un natural or unusual or simple hate etc. It is said that" one can not CLAP with a single hand ", the same applies to misbehaviour or misconduct, Therefore, both the parties are equally responsible for the situation.In fact, persons who have got will,power and tendency to ignore behaviour for the person are a step ahead in being a true human being. One can not control rebellion by rebellion but definitely it can be controlled by counsel ling, patience and calmness.

Answer 2

One of the laws of Nature: Every action (good or bad) has an equal and opposite reaction.)
Okay, my opinion, after reading your question about 30 times: Grow up and quit deliberately defying your father. Your mother needs to quit defending and coddling you, regardless of whether you both feel that he is being unfair and hate him for it.
Maye he can't control the forces of his life outside the home, but he feels he can control them in his home. It actually shows that he does care how you turn out, even if perhaps he may be going about it in a weird way. And it is marginally better than if he ignored you and didn't care at all.
My advice: Grow up. Figure out what YOU want out of your life and focus on that. You can't change other people, you can only change yourself. Your father is only human, has faults and flaws and feelings and experiences that you can not begin to comprehend.
Rebellion and defiance are pointless. You are fighting a losing battle. Focus on the day you can walk out the door, prepare every day and let the rest of it go. When you focus on your future, instead of on your present, you are taking the power away from the person you perceive as controlling you and putting the control back into your own hands. Fighting it is giving up control of your own life.