2007-03-21 00:02:40 · 25 answers · asked by free2rhyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are the real person who makes you happy, not someone else. If you look for fulfillment and happiness to come from outside yourself, you better believe that person will also be the one who "makes" you cry. Think about it.
2007-03-21 00:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a relationship isn't it? You know each other so well you know how to make each other happy or how to really get to each other. A mature person knows the power they have but chooses to use it for good rather than harm.
If you are crying more than smiling then you need to have a serious think.
You also have to embrace the knowledge that it is you who makes you happy - don't rely on another person to make you happy. Happiness is magnified if you hve someone special to share it with but they should never be the source of your happiness.
2007-03-21 07:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saying is true isnt it, You always hurt the one you love! If your partner generally makes you happy then the crying times need to be ironed out, Talk to each other, discover why you get upset, compromise. You cant be happy all the time however you can respect each other and live to a happy medium x
2007-03-21 09:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jaksi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love her even more than I did before, and try to talk things out with her, and also offer her a peace offering, such as a small gift, example; incense sticks and a burner, some figurines of an Anime she likes, a romantic dinner out, with a bottle of her favourite wine, or even something normal, like holding each other whilst watching a DVD, then falling asleep in each other's arms.
My fiancee makes me cry quite a lot when she shouts and bullies me, but I've started talking things out with her, and so far things seem to be going fine.
2007-03-21 07:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Scott Bull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason he makes you cry doesn't it? If he makes you cry by cheating on you or treating you badly , then i would say get rid of him! Find some one who makes you happy but doesnt make you cry.
2007-03-21 08:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a bit of a dilemma, i see. My advice'll be for you to really think if the happiness you get from this person is worth the pain. i.e. if u derive more happiness than pain. Depending on what you come up with, u'll know what to do.
2007-03-21 07:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by easy-does-it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by makes your cry? Why are they making your cry if i may ask? If they are abusing you then get out and away from them asap and get to safety and help. If however it is not on purpose then i have to say that no one is perfect and we all hurt each other at times emotionally without even meaning to do so. We purposely do not hurt the ones we care and love about and if we hurt them or make them cry we feel bad and apologize and ask them to forgive us.
2007-03-21 07:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a very thin line between the two. This person obviously means something to you. So it's no doubt he/she will bring about your best, and even your worse of emotions. Take it for what it is. Love.
2007-03-21 07:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Satyr Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a relationship. But,.. in what way?.. this needed much more detailed information to it. What is it they do that makes you cry? Think about it.
2007-03-21 07:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jack R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It what is called beign in love. It is an emotion that will either make you the happiest or the saddest person on the earth.
2007-03-21 07:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Neil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋