wanna escape?
2007-03-20 23:35:17 · 13 answers · asked by chloe 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm clinically depressed. My partner has chronic fatigue syndrome. THEN we have a relationship to sustain.
Serial monogamy may take the juicy bit at the start of every relationship and well...juice it to the max....but most folks ultimately find this leave them with a hollow feeling. Theres no depth to the emotions experienced.
Getting to the point where if need be youd both cut off your own right arm for the other takes A LOT of work. Your both different despite however much you may have in common. She insist on leaving her damn jewelry projects everywhere for me to trip over and then blames me for it! I dont do my fair share of housework by a long shot. Do we love each other less? Hell no! You WORK around it.
Marriage and serious relationships only provide for you what you put in.....if you dont give put nothin in then you will get nothing good out.
Having said all this work stuff - of course people want to escape....everyone has a pain threshhold. What you gotta do tho is work out wether this is brief pain or ongoing pain and wether its worth it in the long term; is it just a bad week?
Best of luck with whoever the lucky chap(ess) is.
2007-03-20 23:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Danny B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tired, yes. Escape, no. Any relationship is work, and work makes you tired, but the reward of staying with it is well worth any effort.
Married 16 years.
2007-03-20 23:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bypass see your surgeon. Ask him for the contraceptive pill....this could be an particularly undesirable time to finally end up pregnant. Then ask him are you relatively depressed, or merely anemic, or might or not this is extra useful if the two one in all you went for counselling. this might help your husband comprehend your emotional desires, and learn how to administration his agressiveness and desirous to be consistently precise.(this implies you have not any existence of your guy or woman that he does not administration, if he won't take any suggestion from you and gets aggro once you attempt). a similar counselling might permit you notice the way you're drawing close him in a manner he can not respond to. OR.might make you notice he can not replace. Otrhe might even refuse to bypass. which could be your cue for you to bypass. provide your self 3 extra months to be sure if he's prepared to take part in getting to grasp the thank you to offer you what you want. Then bypass. yet be certain you don't get pregnant, considering the undeniable fact that could certainly catch you.
2016-11-27 19:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by veldkamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. But mostly I'm tired b/c I have 2 young kids, and we don't have tons of time for romance and adult fun like we used to. It's normal. But I never really have the urge to leave him. Well, sometimes I do leave him with the kiddos and go to the mall and get a pedicure.
Try couples counseling.
2007-03-20 23:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by avalonlee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. That is normal. That is why you have to be creative to come up with new things to spice things up a bit.
2007-03-20 23:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I'm tied up to the bedposts.
2007-03-20 23:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! alot
2007-03-20 23:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by soggybottomscout_25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes but then i look at my single friends who still live at home they might always go out but i think it s them who are jealous of you
2007-03-20 23:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by outrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time,yes
2007-03-20 23:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tired AND BORED.
2007-03-20 23:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by american horse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋