2007-03-20 22:35:08 · 13 answers · asked by silvia582001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on if you take his last name and you guys combine your all accounts together. If so then yes. If you keep your name and your own accounts then no.
2007-03-20 22:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get legal advice, generally the answer is yes, but if you get good legal advice you may be able to protect yourself, but in the end, if you marry someone, your heart is attached so even if you could protect your money, money problems are a top reason for relationships to fail.
seems like you already know this is a disaster waiting to happen deep down inside. if there is time, wait to see if the other person will work on getting out of debt or if it's an ongoing problem.
debt problems also are only a symptom of deeper problems, like over eating, looking for happiness in all the wrong places. if you have your finances in order and the other doesn't it probably means it's not a good relationship and this is a sign to keep looking, money can't buy happiness
2007-03-20 22:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by stephen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so a techniques as funds go, he's a genius. so a techniques as having a relationship is going, he's an fool, and you're too previous to coach a boy a thank you to be a guy. i do no longer supply a feck what he does for a dwelling, or how long he's long previous. If he won't be able to guy-up and commence contributing to doing his proportion of issues, you relatively ought to make that the deal breaker. this occasion won't advance as quickly as you get married - if something, it is going to in effortless terms worsen, and forget approximately it completely once you have little ones. He would not choose a spouse - he needs a maid. you're able to do extra perfect ! he's no longer your tournament, hon. P.S. PLEASE do no longer make the silly and inaccurate mistake of shifting in lower back. It would not hasten marriage, or any sort of robust dedication. in case you adore somebody sufficient to circulate in, then basically marry them. in case you have doubts approximately whether or no longer they're marriage textile, then what's the coolest judgment of shifting in? shifting in is often a mistake, fantastically with a guy that has arrested emotional progression like your bonehead. he's a pilot, so he's God whilst the plane is in the air, yet that would not supply him a loose pass to be a dick whilst he's on the floor. He has this superiority complicated that's extremely unapealing, boastful, and unattractive. i might have been achieved months in the past ... yet that's basically me. i'm no longer in love with the guy such as you're, and that i might nicely be extra purpose. perhaps you ought to be, too.
2016-10-02 12:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by wyckoff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will share all debts...same as if he dies of natural causes or by accident...you will be the one who will carry the burden of financial debts....but,if your love is strong and able to maintain a stable marriage..then,their is nothing wrong of marrying your man to be....maybe,he has a terrible single life and you might just change his life around..just sit down with him and talk calmly on how to solve the debts and not to have bad financial problems in the future...doing that is your showing your compassion for a future wife to be...comprising calmly will make the communication stronger connected with the both of you....good luck :-)
2007-03-20 22:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the bills were incurred before marriage,they are hers.If you share bills,meaning both of your names are on the bill-then yes you are half responsible.If you are to marry,if she owns a house and you put your name on the title,you are responsible.If you share bank or credit cards,you are responsible.,etc.Anything you acquire after marriage will be both your responsiblities.Just besause you want to marry with this knowledge of her bills does not make you responsible.
2007-03-20 23:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure will. Debt becomes marital responsibility once married
2007-03-20 22:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
typically, yes. that is something that should be taken care of bye the person in debt prior to marriage though...not after. peace
2007-03-20 22:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-03-20 22:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mikey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you'd have to, but it's not only the responsible thing to do, but you also (as far as I know) love your partner, and I think you'd want to help him/her out as best as you can.
2007-03-20 22:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by legendarytale890 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. You are his other half when you marry him.
2007-03-20 22:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋