I find my self drawn to women who kids but they have lil boys that remind me of my son (god bless his soul) who is no longer alive. Is it me or am i trying to replace my son? please help me cuz this is eating up inside
2007-03-20 22:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by maj_green03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i love the femalme a lot but i also love her son as if he were mine
2007-03-24 19:50:22 · update #1
I don't think it is strange. You are not trying to replace your son, nobody can do that. Maybe you long for the times you were a father to your son and you miss that kind of relationship. Focus on the woman though, and just start out slow building a relationship with the kids, if that is what the both of you want. I am sorry for your loss.
2007-03-20 22:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would watch more old TV. All new TV is going
to do is shock your or challenge you or belittle
you every 5 minutes. Old TV is escape TV.
I know it's hard to understand this as an answer
but if you watch those shows back in the 60's
you can relax and feel like you want to feel
instead of .... reactionary vs. reactionary. Hope
one of those ladies are right for you.
If this anwer is chosen as best, I will pay $1 to anyone who answers this question directly, supports their answer, is not rude or ARMING............... my logic
can't explain right now goodnight America
damn its 9:45 a.m. ...!
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2007-03-20 22:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No child in the world can replace ur lost son. But u can adopt a child, and dedicate ur time in growing him up. This may help u.
2007-03-20 22:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not trying to replace him you just love him very much and so you feel a bond with other little children-boys in particular. I am very sorry fro teh loss of your son, I wouldn't worry about this as it is probobly completely normal in your situation.
I hope this helps!
2007-03-20 22:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no therapist but i'd say yes. not to replace him & make is memory go away i just think u want that feeling u had when ur son (may he rest in peace) was alive. n as far as i'm concerned there is nothing wrong with that!
2007-03-20 22:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is not fair.. I understand how you feel.. However, life goes on and you have to move on too.. Do things that will remind less of your past.. No advise is worth it.. Only you can make the difference in yourself.
2007-03-20 22:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems you are trying to replace your lost son. i am sorry for your loss. but you have to accept it in order for you to move on. moving on doesn't mean you're gonna forget him. no. no one can forget a son or a daughter. your son will always be with you, in your heart, in your mind, in your memories. but life for you will have to go on. if ever you will love someone again, love him for what he is. good luck.
2007-03-20 22:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you miss your boy...naturally. But hey...if you meet a great woman with a little boy to match...then maybe you were meant to be. Just make sure you are with her really for your feelings towards her. You do not want to date someone just to hang with their kid. Good luck man...my best wishes are with you.
2007-03-20 22:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gwen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that's not strange.. it's ur right to like kids and this is a good thing cause many guys run away when they learn that their partner have kids
2007-03-20 22:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by nap11t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need get some help to deal with this issue bless you , i am sorry for you
2007-03-24 22:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋