I have been married for two years and always found I could not quite satisfy my wife in bed. When I met her she mentioned her previous partners were large men but never thought anything of it as I always had previous partners who enjoyed it with me. However I was shocked to hear that a couple of weeks ago she she told me she prefers large men. I thought I was adiquate at 7.5" and reasonable thick but now I feel inadiquate for her and lost interest even having sex with her. Is it true that a woman has a lot more enjoyment with well endowed men?
2007-03-20 21:45:19 · 11 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you might want to really look into your wife past and see what exactly has she done. With sizes like that she might have been in the adult entertainment Field or has done some crzy shi$. Just my 2-cents worth.
2007-03-20 22:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me personally , I prefer an attentive partner over a well endowed partner. I enjoy longer foreplay and experimenting with different positions is a lot more exciting no matter what the size.
2007-03-20 21:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should appreciate her honesty. She didn't lie about how she feels, even in the beginning. The real issue is that you admit that you couldn't quite satisfy her 'always'. So this is way for you two to grow together, talk, and learn, maybe this honesty could continue on into the bedroom and you could be discovering more techniques. Otherwise, you are wasting your time measuring each other by your genitals, and missing out on what's real.
2007-03-20 22:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be insulting, but this is why you should seek a virgin, if any left these days. Too many people get around, and when they find the "right" person, too often they compare them with the past and compare the wrong things. Some one callous enough to say this...well, you probably could end the marriage now, but instead, why not go to counseling. Sounds like your life can benefit from that.
2007-03-20 21:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to be godzilla, but different people have different tastes. Some prefer huge, some average and some smaller of course. You could try some things like cock rings or herbal enhancements to give you a boost...or just blow her mind with some out of this world forplay.
2007-03-20 21:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gwen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is she living in the past? Why didn't she marry a porno star? How would she like it if you compare her to that tight little virgin you had when you was 17 years old? Dwell in the past too long my friend and it screws up your day
So, the answer is no.........and no you can not compete with her past neither
2007-03-20 22:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All woman are diffrent and talk to her let her know what she makes you feel. If she doesn't understand than counceling or divorce. Maybe she did not mean it in a bad way.
2007-03-20 22:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by SADGIRLOH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she even telling you that!
everyone that i've been with always says that i'm the biggest they been with. i know that its not true but its is just things that make it hotter.
i would never tell a woman that she is way to loose or don't you ever clean it. that would just ruin it man!
2007-03-20 21:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r more than adequate.
she needs something else and this is how she is trying to say.
2007-03-20 23:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,but you married the wrong women
2007-03-20 21:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by ubon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋