you have to be strong or you would not have made it this far on your own
you will do great give your self a hug and love your baby you will do just fine and be a great parent
2007-03-20 21:44:43
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answered by debrasearch 6
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I was a single parent of two girls for many years. How many times did i ask my self that very question. Am i good mom? am i raising them right? Would my mom be proud? Will they think i was a good mom, or hate me? The road in front of you is a long one. It is a lonely one. It is a hard one, and it is worth every step. Every worry, every tear, every night i stayed home while my friends went out partying... worth it. You do the best you can. Take deep breaths, laugh as much as you humanly can with your child. Be patient and forgiving not only with your child but your self also. Drink this up... My children are my heart, my joy, my comfort, my pride, and they tell me every day they love me. Yours will too. There was that movie"The Crow". The movie was ok. But that line "Mother is the word for God in the mouths of all children" has always stuck with me. Its the same for single fathers also. You are going to be the whole world for your son. More than provider, but protector, teacher, friend, playmate, soul mate.. rival at times, .. I cant tell you what a wild ride it is, enjoy it.
2007-03-21 04:54:32
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answered by Anonymous
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well for starters you have been this far 4 months and lets not forget the day you gave birth, which I hope via normal delivery. i know at this point in your life your probably going through the post partum depression where most of "US" moms went through, its a matter of how strong we are so, to answer that you are strong enough just take it easy and live one day at a time. TIme travels fast and before you know it your son will be living his own life. Always ask GOD for your everyday guidance and hve him guide you every step of the way,,,I'm sure that he won't let you down,,,GOD BLESS!!!
2007-03-21 05:43:59
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answered by mitch 1
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Welcome to motherhood.....I think we all question ourselves about every now and then. Join a play group in your area and meet other moms and babies. This is not only good for soicalizing your baby, but for you to get support or give support to others. You might be surprised that someone else is feeling the same way you are. Contact your local public health for a listing of play groups in your area, it will help. You can do it, and if you are having any doubts, talk to your doctor about it, he or she will help find you the support you need. I am also sure that your local church would be a good place to turn to and they might have programs/play groups for moms and babies. Good luck.
2007-03-21 05:05:37
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answered by Canadian Girl 2
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Look you prob a gr8 parent, and you look after you child as best you can and give it the best , by all this it will make u stronger within yourself and with the bond between you and your child so dont worry ur Strong enough ,!!!!
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2007-03-21 04:44:09
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answered by Zoe 1
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I'm not sure if this is a question, or if you're looking for support. Trust me though, you CAN do this!!! You can do anything you put your mind to. It's going to seem like the most difficult thing in the world alot of the time, but it's not something that you can't overcome.
Best of luck to you!
2007-03-21 04:45:39
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answered by BoomerFamily 4
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you are...
2007-03-21 04:44:54
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answered by Anonymous
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