coz i had a best buddy (a guy).. we were happy to be just that..
recently got he coupled up with someone..
and...
you guessed it.. things havent been the same since..
do you think we mite be best friends again..
coz i really, really miss him.. (but then i have no romantic feelings for him)
sometimes i think i should just leave him alone.. now dat he has got a life..
and stop being so pathetic..
but then again...
ahh.. forget it..
Peace.
2007-03-20 21:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think that the gender really matters. I have female friends that do the same thing (get a boyfriend and forget their other friends) until something goes wrong in the relationship and then they will be knocking on your door! It is natural to want to be with someone you are romantically involved with a lot, especially in a new relationship. Usually things even out a bit when you have been together for awhile!
I most definitely think it is possible for a guy and a girl to be best friends. My best friend is a guy and I have even been a best man at a wedding. Just keep the door open and make sure you let your friend know you are feeling neglected and do your best to make time for each other. Friends are so important and I know it's hard right now but if you really want that person in your life you sometimes have to take what you can get.
2007-03-20 21:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by ivana c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal cuz I have been place in some situations like that before that just shows that that person really means something to you thats all...... you can still be his best buddy and look out for him if you are his buddy as u claim you will be there no matter what or who comes in the way RIGHT!!!!!!! Personally I like when I have a really close girl friend cuz she can help me in my relationship and also someone I can turn to when I am going thru things ya feel me!!!!
2007-03-20 21:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nazaire J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse! I don't see a problem, if you guys have been friends for a long time just becasue one of you has a special someon doesn't mean you twostill can't be friends. Unless the other feels uncomfortable aboutnit and has no idea how to handle the situation. Then again it could be a controlling bf/gf.
2007-03-27 07:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by meximari420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 05:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years ago i had the greatest friend in the world we'd hang out every night i loved him so much we were best of friends then i got a boyfriend and meand my best friend faded away and we lost touch i cant tell you how much i regret letting our friendship fizzle as i have missed him so much over the years and its only been in the last 3 weeks that i managed to find him and make contact i havent seen him yet but i cant wait till i do please dont waist it and dont let any one tell you its wrong its not hold on to it because its hard to find such strong friendships so stick around and dont let him get away!!! good luck
2007-03-28 20:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by www.girl2mum.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal. With that being said if the new girl has caused a break in the relationship you had then he is not really a friend. If he was your friend then you guys would still talk from time to time.
2007-03-28 11:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by someadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to believe this was possible and i know you think a lot of this guy but if his wife isnt his best friend, they dont have a strong communcation line in their marriage and sometimes that is the weekest link
2007-03-28 19:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your friend go just because he has a girl now. try to plan one night a week that is your time together. and when you meet someone special, make sure you don't let that affect your friendship.
2007-03-25 09:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly normal for this to happen. your mate jus might be feelin left out
2007-03-28 19:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...
2007-03-27 13:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋